confused

[socer003grrl]

ok i have these 2 friends lets call them ann and jane, they used to be best friends and we all hung out sometimes. my other friends the ones i allways hang out with didn't like ann very much i still went on being friends with her. now i don't know the whole story but they hate each other and i am more friends with jane. now they ann keeps telling me all this stuff about jane and i am pretty sure it isn't true. ann has posted stuff about jane on my myspace and has IMed me asking me y i hate her(as in y i hate ann but i don't!! well, yeah confused as i said,i kinda don't like her still just confused). the people i normaly hang out with who don't like ann, like jane. i am sooo confused!!

 

[MuNkY]

Huh?

You don't need all of your friends to get along.

 

[belle_of_the_ball]

just ignore her "y do you hate her" questions....if you say "i dont hate her" dont get into detail...its not her beeswax! Munky is right...you dont need all your friends to get along..just be friends w/ all of them and if they start talking about one dont get involved or say something along the lines of "we shouldnt talk about her..(change subject)"

hope that works for you!

 

[Cinderella94]

Wow.......yeah all of your friends don't have to get along. Just don't get caught up with one friend gossiping about another one just to make this girl happy. Just always be honest, and I am sure things will work themselves out.

 

[socer003grrl]

thanks!

 

[Cinderella94]

No problem. How did things work out?