Confrontation at the movie!

Marseeya

<font color=blue>Drama Magnet<br><font color=deepp
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I cannot believe this happened, especially after I was so wired up about my son's shoplifting incident!!! (see another thread for that)

DH, DD and I went to see Narnia for an afternoon matinee. Just as the movie was starting, this family came and sat beside us -- mother, father, & three girls from the ages of around 3 to 10. They were so obnoxious throughout the movie. The little one kept running back and forth between both parents, and would talk the entire time. The mother wouldn't bother to shush her, and would talk back to her. The older girls kept stomping their feet and talking. The mother was the worst! She'd just talk to her whole family, and then at certain scenes in the movie would cry out, laugh loudly, or make loud remarks. The girls kept getting out of their seats and walking in front of us and the littlest one would crawl at our feet. Several times, the little one would grab someone's head in the seats in front of us.

Yes, they were annoying, but we were dealing with it. It was a crowded theater, so we kind of expected that kind of nonsense.

Then, at one point, the little on dropped an entire HUGE bucket of soda on the floor, where it puddled under my feet. I have a coat with faux fur on the sleeve hem and hood, and my coat must have been just low enough, because soda got all over the faux fur. I was fuming!

I leaned over and told DH who, by that point, got fed up and went to complain to an usher. The usher followed DH back to our seats and asked me who spilled and I pointed to the woman and she went off! She started yelling, "give me a break! I have a small child and these things happen. Her coat isn't wet!" I told the usher that it wasn't just that, but that they were out of control, and the woman started saying, "That's not true at all! We've been fine!" The people in front of us all turned around and told the usher that they were out of control as well. Then the usher told her to calm down and told me if anything more happened to please come get him. This woman said more in anger, but that's all I can remember off the top of my head.

Well, after he walked away, the woman got all confrontational with me and started going on and on about, "Give me a break, your coat was on the seat the whole time, you're a liar," and then "small child this" and "small child that."

I just said, "Would you just DROP IT??? We've been putting up with you through the entire movie and now it's time to just STOP!" Well, she shut up and grabbed the little one and left. The rest of the movie (all 10 minutes of it) was quiet and peaceful.

When we were leaving, we saw the usher outside the theater and we stopped and thanked him, and as we were talking to him, the people from in front of us stopped to thank US for complaining and to tell the usher how bad they thought the people were as well. Then the usher took us to the manager, who apologized and gave us free tickets. She said we should have talked to her sooner and she would have thrown them out.

You know, some people are just scary! If my child spilled something on someone's coat, I couldn't be apologetic enough.

And I won't even go into all the little ones in the theater in the first place (some infants too). But at least their parents were trying to shush them.

I feel like a drama magnet today. :rolleyes1
 
Marseeya,

Atleast you can use the passes to see the movie again or in this case for the first time and enjoy it.
 
The good thing is that someone took responsibility and stepped up and agave you free tickets.

Sorry you are having a horrible day today.
 
Incidents like yours are the reason so many people wait for the dvd and don't go to theaters anymore. I wish the ushers/mgrs would pay more attention to what's going on in the theaters so that customers wouldn't have to go through what you did.
 

Welcome to my world Marseeya, that is exactly how it is here in Brooklyn when you go to the movies, so we don't go here anymore. Alot of people are so obnoxious and selfish, thinking they can talk to the screen and interact with the actors!
 
That's TERRIBLE!!!
I HATE confrontations like that!!!! Especially in a setting where I cannot
"stant-up-for-myself" and then leave...... :rotfl:
I also "said" something to some lady just before the movie was starting to shut up....and I had butterflies in my stomach just from that!! So I really feel for what you did!

And yes, I agree, if MY child did something like that I would be SORRY for what happened! geesh!!!!!

May your next visit to the movies be so much more pleasant.
 
I see the Tag Fairy is reading my thread. :rotfl2:
 
SamRoc said:
Welcome to my world Marseeya, that is exactly how it is here in Brooklyn when you go to the movies, so we don't go here anymore. Alot of people are so obnoxious and selfish, thinking they can talk to the screen and interact with the actors!

I don't get that!

Rocky Horror set a bad precendent.
 
That is why I prefer poker and video games at home! :teeth:
 
This sounds so much like the story that is just making the newspapers here about the restaurant in Illinois or Ohio that put up a sign in the window. The sign reads "Children of all ages must use their quiet voice and best behavior" or something to that effect. The restaurant owner is getting favorable response from all over the country.

I think there's some restaurants in Disney that could use to put up the same sign...and maybe the movie theatres too!!
 
That's awful that people behave that way and ruin it for others. Not to mention, how are their kids supposed to learn the right thing to do with parents like that!?!

It also reminded me of an incident way back when I was about 8 or 9 years old. I went to our local theater with 2 other friends. (back then we could go alone and it was not a big deal, the theater was in our neighborhood and not someplace that has multiple screens :rotfl: BTW we were seeing a movie with Patty Duke, and the big feature was HELP - the Beatles!)

Anyway, we got in there and these older boys were being noisy, obnoxious and bothering the heck out of us. About half way through the first movie, after having asked them repeatedly to be quiet, we got up and reported them to one of the people working there. They were escorted out, and we got to watch the rest in quiet. Pretty good of us as young kids to speak up and fix the problem!
 
Marseeya said:
Rocky Horror set a bad precendent.
Oh, but Rocky Horror was a category unto itself. It was calling out for crowd participation!!

I LOVED that all through college - throwing toast at the screen!! :rotfl:
 
Marseeya said:
And I won't even go into all the little ones in the theater in the first place (some infants too). But at least their parents were trying to shush them.

I feel like a drama magnet today. :rolleyes1

You had me up until this part. LOL. You went to see the Narnia movie, at a matinee, and you are surprised about the number of "little ones?" I haven't seen this movie but isn't it FOR kids/families? Especially at a matinee?

I totally see you were in the right about the incident by the way, I just don't understand this part.
 
Narnia is a bit too violent for 3 years old I think. My DW took DD7 to see it, and I took DD3 to see Chicken Little. I fell asleep during that movie. Well, at least DD3 enjoyed it :)
 
Sorry you had this happen to you. Narnia was a Good movie.

Something similar like this was witnessed by me the other weekend at Disney. We were on the streets as they were doing the taping of the parade, and of course as the parade is going by, they make you wait on the curb. This one woman was arguing with a cast member about it, having to wait, and the cast member was only doing their job. The CM said politely. "Ma'am, We're only looking out for your safety, we ask you to be patient." The lady shot back "I'm an Impatient woman." So I piped up, with a smile (And MUCH to my DBF's chagrin) "Then should you be at Disney, where patience is the REAL virtue?" she kind of looked at me, and then smiled.. "You're right, I'm sorry."

At least she appologized to the CM.
 
Skywalker said:
You had me up until this part. LOL. You went to see the Narnia movie, at a matinee, and you are surprised about the number of "little ones?" I haven't seen this movie but isn't it FOR kids/families? Especially at a matinee?

I totally see you were in the right about the incident by the way, I just don't understand this part.

You're right that it's a family movie, but I'm of the opinion that kids who can't sit through a 2 1/2 hour movie shouldn't be at a theater, even if it's Disney. Infants in arms... I'm okay as long as they're quiet, but the two that were there were fussy the entire time. Tots... again, can they sit through it? The ones sitting around us sure couldn't.
 
lucincia said:
Narnia is a bit too violent for 3 years old I think. My DW took DD7 to see it, and I took DD3 to see Chicken Little. I fell asleep during that movie. Well, at least DD3 enjoyed it :)

Was it violent? :confused3 I don't know, I was too busy arguing. :rotfl2:
 
Prime example of why I never go to a movie when it first comes out. Sorry you went through that.
 
I don't think it has much to do with Rocky Horror. I think kids (and maybe the parents) are used to watching movies at home where they can talk all they want. When they go out, they just do the same. But, what do I know? I don't have kids. I remember trying to tell my nephew that he had to be quiet in a movie theater and couldn't talk through the movie like he does at home.
 


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