I do agree with your rules being necessary to get the full value out of the DDP. But if we are using the DPP for it's convenience factor but then we HAVE to have dinner as TS and shouldn't use it for 2 credit meals, and need to order the most expensive meals, etc etc it really becomes just as onerous as scrimping a bit.
If you're getting
FREE dining, then your point is moot. You dont HAVE to have dinner TS, can waste 2 credits on a meal, and order the cheapest meal on the menu, etc, etc. Eat wherever and whatever you want. It's not costing you anything.
However, if you are PAYING for DDP, then you should at the minimum do the math and see if you're getting value.
Taking your criteria, when I compare the DDP to paying OOP I look at what we ideally would enjoy most too. For my family, that means sitting down for a family TS dinner with meat/fish/pasta just like we do at home every night. We would not enjoy eating cafeteria style CS for dinner and I would argue most people would rather sit down for a formal meal at dinnertime if given the choice.
So extrapolating the cost of these dinners (and what I would normally order if its not a buffet) vs. the cost of the DDP, and determining that the entire daily DDP cost is almost covered by our TS meals, makes it a no-brainer for me to add DDP. And FYI, you don't have to order the most expensive item on the menu. I never said that in my PP.
You note "
Often for us we don't even want the CS desserts".
I agree, and I noted in my PP that I don't want/eat them either. There is only so much dessert you can eat. But again, if your entire days DDP is covered by dinner, skip it. You don't lose anything but calories.
You also note "
My kids like the ice cream bars which are among the cheaper snacks, etc etc".
While I don't let my kids use snack credits for extra desserts (I think the 2 included daily with DDP is enough), I also never noted that you need to get value using snack credits. In fact, I noted in my PP we use snack credits on BF. BF items are also among the "cheaper" use for snack credits. In fact, BF items in most cases are cheaper than mickey bars. But by using them on BF, it saves money because you're not paying OOP for BF some days when you could use these "cheaper" snack credits for things you normally would buy anyway. It also saves you from scrambling to use up snack credits on the last day by buying up junk food like I read about time and time again on these boards.
Your final point actually seems to be in total agreement with what I was saying all along. "
When my kids were kid DDP aged it was a total no brainer to do the DDP even not using it ideally."
Sounds familiar.
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but now that I have 2 "adult" aged kids it's just about even plus we usually end up eating 1 TS meal each trip where none of us are hungry but need to use those credits."
So it seems as though you are doing the math. Have done the math. And know the math.
I'm just telling people how I use the math to my benefit.
You actually noted when you now use DDP, "
it's just about even plus we usually end up eating 1TS each trip".
You break even and waste a TS? I can see a CS maybe, but a TS???
I'd say on this trip with your FREE dining, if you think you're going to waste a TS, you should use 2TS for a DDE dinner. Or maybe go through the "onerous" process like I do of actually planning out your ADR's.
