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[phillmolly]

Okay heres my whine for today,

My son will NOT go to sleep!!!! It is now going on three hours past his bedtime and he will not sleep!!! I rocked him for over an hour untill my bum got sore and then tried lying down with him, nope not working! I could let him scream in his crib but honsetly that is just no fun for any of us, it just upsets me even more, so now we are sitting in bed watching 17 again.

 

[chrissyt27]

I want to whine. I am 31 and DH and I have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years. After 6 IUIs and one miscarriage we still have nothing to show for all the money we have spent. On top of my having PCOS now we found dh’s has more severe issues now as well and now we will have to save for IVF.

Last Friday we found out our dog had lymphoma and it was already in his bone marrow. He hadn’t even been sick. Then my dr called to say our 6th IUI failed and then Wednesday our poor dog died luckily DH was with him. He was 11, but I wasn’t ready for it to happen so fast. It’s just so horribly sad that he died so quickly and that I am going to have to pay to have IVF and it may not even work. Also my sister is pregnant and is due the same time I was supposed to be last year so that sucks she will have the first grandkid:< and her kid will always remind me of the one I don’t have.
I also hate my job. Well I like my job, but I hate the people I work for and with. It’s supposed to be Disney, but we are too far from the mouse to actually be “Disney”. The people are horrible, they lie, cheat, and back stab each other. I keep hoping it gets better and I need the insurance and like my Disney perks.
Did I say how much I miss my dog? I have done nothing but cry for a week.

 

[chrissyt27]

Oh, I love to whine
and usually no one wants to listen!

Here is my rant:
January, flood IN the house (pipe broke), second floor, leaked through two floors and into the furnace (cha ching!)

DS wrecked the truck, having his license a whole two months....

February: my van died. right on the interstate, hauling the family to an away swim meet

March: snow weight caused leak in the one room that didn't have water damage from the flood


off to a great start this year

at least my health is good
I do feel for those of you who are ailing or in pain!

Oh no. This does all suck. I hate car issues and snow. Nothing you can do prevent that.

 

[pandora174]

I need a good whine !

* went to a great b-day party yesterday for one of my son's classmates. Other mom there that has known my son & myself & DH for 2 years never acknowleged my hello. RUDE
* same "woman" goes on & on how the school is getting ruined by all the kids on McKay scholarships (children with disabilities) & another scholarship for low income children
* my niece who sells avon has been holding on to my order for 2 months & never returns my calls until it's convenient for her but not for me !
* same niece has $ for travel to San Francisco, concerts but her mom & dad can't make their foodstamps last so I send them a check every paycheck. DBIL had several strokes & is disabled
* my b-day is during my job's "audit" period where they randomly pull your work & then tell you everything you did wrong (fun b-day ! )
* our dog for the first time in 4 years got fleas


Whine over...thanks

 

[dicar123]

Oooh, ready to whine!

We have a girl at work who is totally untouchable. I say girl because she is all of 19 and has been put in a position of authority. She's lazy. Unless it is full-on busy, she has disappeared, or she's standing in a corner "looking at the schedule". She has poor communication skills. She rambles on and on and we're never quite sure of her point. She doesn't talk to people nicely. She loves to play Queen Bee and throw orders around. If people are already doing X, she'll say, "Ok guys, you need to do X!" She never pitches in to help. She doesn't think ahead. She'll decide she's sending me home early, so I don't get a break. Then she'll ask me to stay "just until this rush is over", or can you count down that before you go? So, I'm out at my regular time, I just didn't get a break. She doesn't listen. If people say, "Hey, we're busy over here, can we get some help?" She'll reassure them that they're fabulous and can do it.

She comes from an unfortunate background, and I do respect the fact that she has overcome her family influence and circumstances. But that doesn't mean she has the temperment/maturity to be in charge. The owner is determined to mentor her, but it's the rest of us who have to deal with it.

 

[dicar123]

Oh, I forgot the latest. She doesn't have a car. Her original schedule enabled her to take the bus. They changed her schedule so taking the bus isn't reasonable. She told me that a manager gave her a list of all our phone numbers and to just call people for rides.

Ok, anyone can have an emergency and ask for my help. I don't at all mind going out of my way occasionally. But this isn't a temporary problem. Either change her hours back, or she moves, or give her the money to buy a car Mr. Mentor Man and have her pay you back. How did it become the responsibility of anyone who works with her to provide her with transportation?

 

[MickeyMomOfThree]

I want to whine. I am 31 and DH and I have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years. After 6 IUIs and one miscarriage we still have nothing to show for all the money we have spent. On top of my having PCOS now we found dh’s has more severe issues now as well and now we will have to save for IVF.

Last Friday we found out our dog had lymphoma and it was already in his bone marrow. He hadn’t even been sick. Then my dr called to say our 6th IUI failed and then Wednesday our poor dog died luckily DH was with him. He was 11, but I wasn’t ready for it to happen so fast. It’s just so horribly sad that he died so quickly and that I am going to have to pay to have IVF and it may not even work. Also my sister is pregnant and is due the same time I was supposed to be last year so that sucks she will have the first grandkid:< and her kid will always remind me of the one I don’t have.
I also hate my job. Well I like my job, but I hate the people I work for and with. It’s supposed to be Disney, but we are too far from the mouse to actually be “Disney”. The people are horrible, they lie, cheat, and back stab each other. I keep hoping it gets better and I need the insurance and like my Disney perks.
Did I say how much I miss my dog? I have done nothing but cry for a week.

You win (and this time you don't want to), and I am sorry for all you are going through. Hugs upon hugs to you, vent whenever you need to!

 

[Stephanie218]

My DH left for Afghanistan this week for 8 months or so. I know we'll get through it, but it just sucks right now.

 

[tinkerfan1]

Ok, I'll join the whine fest! 2 surgeries for DH and I last year (each - I'd never had surgery other than c-sections before), husband has had virtually no work, an accident that was my fault, a roof that needed replaced, plumbing problems, air conditioner broke on hottest day....these are just some of the things I can think of for 2009. So, we thought 2010 would be a new year and new beginnings. It started with my MS flaring up, so now I am having to give myself daily shots (not fun), DH needs to have yet another surgery, DS15 had his first automobile accident, and I'm being sued for the accident I had last year...which, by the way, the person had already told me he would never sue. That da*% black cloud will not stop following me and I am tired of it! But, I am thankful for all that I do have and I would not trade my problems for those of many other's. So, thanks for letting me vent. I'll take some cheese now, too.

 

[turning40withMickey]

Okay heres my whine for today,

My son will NOT go to sleep!!!! It is now going on three hours past his bedtime and he will not sleep!!! I rocked him for over an hour untill my bum got sore and then tried lying down with him, nope not working! I could let him scream in his crib but honsetly that is just no fun for any of us, it just upsets me even more, so now we are sitting in bed watching 17 again.

Sorry! I hope your boy is now and you are too!
Lack of sleep makes me really grouchy!

 

[turning40withMickey]

I don't really have any good whines today
other than dealing with DD13 who makes everyday special in her own moody teenager hellish way.

Sorry for all the troubles of the rest of you.
Feels good to whine, though, doesn't it!

 

[Nette]

We just got back from vacation and on the last night I started coming down with a horrid cold... Sore throat + runny AND stuffy nose (how the heck does that work?). Plane ride was a blast! Not. My right ear wouldn't clear and it was really painful on descent. Finally it cleared about 20 minutes after we got off the plane. My nose is raw from all the wiping and blowing. I have a headache. My ear plugged back up. I don't know if what I'm taking to just survive is going to cause my baby any problems. (Yes yes, I checked the safe meds list from my doctor and I'm taking stuff that's on it) Sudafed and Mucinex are NOT working. Saline spray, neti pot, steam, NOT WORKING. Breathe right strip not working! Only thing that helps is nasal spray and I don't want to be dependent on it. I'm so tired. I haven't really slept since Thursday night. I want to cry and cry and cry and I know if I do I'll just feel worse.

 

[MickeyMomOfThree]

I don't really have any good whines today
other than dealing with DD13 who makes everyday special in her own moody teenager hellish way.

Sorry for all the troubles of the rest of you.
Feels good to whine, though, doesn't it!

I am sorry. Mine is 15 and you are right, they make every day so special!

 

[momof1princess]

i am still hurting SO bad today all i want to do is curl up and cry. i tried to work this morning, but my arms just couldn't take it. i've been on a heating pad and tens unit off and on all day. i pray i get some relief from the chiropractor tomorrow morning, and to all that need them. i pray tomorrow is a better day for all of us.

 

[turning40withMickey]

What?
No whines today?

It was a sunny day in PA and the snow was a'meltin'


I forgot my lunch at home today (darn it!)
and DD13's clothes were not dry this morning when she REALLY NEEDED THEM!!!!
(she has so few outfits, poor thing)

 

[momof1princess]

What?
No whines today?

It was a sunny day in PA and the snow was a'meltin'


I forgot my lunch at home today (darn it!)
and DD13's clothes were not dry this morning when she REALLY NEEDED THEM!!!!
(she has so few outfits, poor thing)

not really a whine, but the chiropractor was upset with me for cleaning the bathrooms and causing myself pain. she said she told me to take it easy this past weekend (which i honestly don't remember). still hurting, but the tens unit helps. not sure when i'll be in any shape to work again, which, with DH's work hours being cut from 60 to 40 this week, is going to hurt, but i can't help it. ok, maybe a small whine, lol.
on the upside, my DD seems to be lying less and studying more. this is a huge breakthrough for her.
oh, and i know your pain-DD didn't put her tights in the dryer last monday, so when she needed them on tuesday, they were still in the washer, and still damp, lol, and she had to wear them anyway, because her room is such a pit, we can't find the other pair!