Colored Rubber Bracelets (long)

Originally posted by binny
the sad thing is though, no matter what Snopes or anyone else says about them, if the kids believe it and play the game, thats all that matters.

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Did you read the snopes link? It actually agreed with you and most of the other posters.

Since writing our original article, we've heard from hundreds of folks. The adults who've written almost always say their kids are never going to wear those bracelets again. On the other hand, almost without exception, the middle- and high-school kids from all across the US. express shock that the adults would think they were actually obeying this "code" and disappointment in their elders for failing to understand the bracelets are no more than a cool fashion accessory that has attracted a silly rumor. Yes, many kids had heard the rumor before the media threw it at them (and many hadn't), but even to those exposed to this snippet of lore in the wild (i.e., those that heard it from their friends as an item of schoolyard lore rather than gleaned it from the headlines of the day), this was nothing more than a giddy "everybody knows" fact, right up there with "Bubble Yum contains spider eggs."

We would happily shift this from the "Undetermined" category squarely into the "False" column save for a small handful of e-mails from youngsters who claim the rumor is on the up-and-up and that they know someone who did it. Quite possibly, those notes amount to nothing more than "I heard the story from someone I trust, so I want to believe it," but we feel we can't dismiss them out of hand. If, however, there have been some actual instances of sex obligated by bracelet-snap, they have been rare.

Moreover, the mechanics of the activity might well rule it out. As numerous of our correspondents have explained, it would take a mighty force to break a jelly bracelet — those circlets are tough.

The greatest concern over "sex bracelets" is not that anyone is going to engage in any real redeeming, but that children far too young to be entertaining such thoughts are being exposed to them. One way the pull tab and beer label beliefs differ from the "sex bracelets" code is the age of the participants; the rumor of thirty years ago was circulated mainly in high schools, but today's version is moving through grade and middle schools.
 
Thanks, everyone.

I read the snopes article, but I also think it acknowledged this fad as real.

DD IS innocent and still very naive. I think she just wants boys to like her and show her attention--not understanding that this type of attention is not positive.

I am really glad that all of you think I did the right thing. I've never had cause before to confiscate anything! I was second guessing our decision; thanks!

I just wanted to add that I don't think anyone at her school is USING the bracelets, I think the girls and boys tease eachother with them. This is not the type of teasing i would like DD to participate in! But, I think it makes the kids believe they are sophisticated and mature.

Obviously, this is not good and i realize this and have tried to impress this upon dd. Hopefully, she understands.
 
I read the snopes article, but I also think it acknowledged this fad as real.

You are correct. Snopes does say the fad is real. Even though most teens are not following through with the "promises" of favors if a boy grabs the bracelet, I agree with you, snopes, and the other posters that what it portrays is not something that we would want our girls to be exposed to, especially as young as your daughter is. You did the right thing in my my opinion.
 
Pink ones: flash someone or make out

ooo, had to delete the link. bad words
 

I think all the moms and dads should start wearing them.... nothing kills a fad like parents...
 
Originally posted by Laurabearz
I think all the moms and dads should start wearing them.... nothing kills a fad like parents...

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Kids always try to come up with a way to hide sexual behavior from authority figures- I remember colored bandanas, and green M&Ms.
 
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