AmericangirlinFrance
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Sounds like you're dating my ex-husband...yes, unfortunately, I married the guy.
We were engaged after 6 weeks of dating. Actually, after only 2 weeks, he'd said he could see us spending the rest of our lives together. We did take 2 1/2 years to plan the wedding, though. I started to question it when he admitted that when I had to work late, he'd go out and drive by my workplace to see if I really was there. He'd even come to my house before work and sit in my room while I got dressed!
I married him anyway (I've since found out that my friends seriously wanted to kidnap me before the wedding; they could see right through him). I vividly remember a night when I spent an evening with 2 other friends, one male, one female. The female friend lived in the same apartment complex, so we went to her place. Imagine my surprise when MY MOTHER showed up at the doorstep! Ex had called her to tell her that I was out with these people and he wanted her to bring me home. I told her no, that she should go home and stay out of it.
Fast forward some years...my favourite band was coming to town and I heard about a meet-and-greet contest. I asked him to please help me win the tickets. His answer was, and I will never forget it, "Not a chance; I just know that Simon LeBon will take a liking to you and you'll run off with him"Seriously???
When our (4th) counselor finally told us to end it (after we'd been seeing her for 2-3 years), he agreed, then immediately booked a weekend trip to NantucketThen when he finally did move out, he took the apartment DIRECTLY ACROSS THE PARKING LOT (there were about 10 other apartments available, nowhere near mine). He admitted to everyone that he did indeed want to keep an eye on me.
After our divorce was final, he met his next girlfriend. He moved in with her 2 weeks later. Less than a month later, they were engaged. A year and a half after that, she went on a weekend trip; came home, handed him the ring and told him to get out. She was fed up with his smothering.
From what I hear, he's had two more girlfriends break up with him...over his smothering, controlling, possessive ways.
Just sharing...you have my sympathy![]()
Yep.... this sounds very familiar to me!