Tiziminchac
<font color=blue>I always travel with my George Fo
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I'm sorry this is so long, I just had to vent. First a little background...
There's this guy I know who's crazy about WDW like I am. He used to be a neighbor of mine (luckily he now lives across town), that's how I met him. I can't remember how we started talking to each other, but Epcot came up in the conversation and we realized we had something in common and we started a friendship. For a few months everything was cool. We even went to Epcot together once. I love the place and will go with just about anybody. All I need is an excuse. Then he started to get kind of clingy. And the more I got to know him the less I wanted to be around the guy. He was constantly calling me, inviting me to lunch. Stuff like that. Like we were best friends or something. He would even tell me I was his best friend. I never told him he was mine. It's hard to explain. It got to the point where I started making up excuses not to talk to him or spend time with him. I have a hard time saying no to people so I'll usually just say "we'll see" when someone asks me to do something I don't wanna do.
Fast forward to last week. Some of you may know that Disney lifted it's block out dates for it's Florida Resident Seasonal Passes. This guy is on the phone calling me. Three or four times a day. Message after message, "let's go, we can go!" After a few days of this I finally call him back. You think he'd get the hint. He asks me if I want to go with him to Epcot and I tell him I can't, even though I want to go to Epcot (not with him), because I have to work, which is true. But then I made the fatal mistake of saying "we'll see" just to get him off the phone.
Now today, when I get home from work there is a message on my machine from him telling me it's important that I call him right away. So I call. He asks me if I'm working this weekend. And I say yeah. And I'm working all next week. So at the earliest I will be able to go is next weekend. Now I admit that I've done this to him before. You know, I kept putting him off and eventually blowing him off and going without him.
He starts getting all mad at me. Bringing up how I go with my other friends and not him. And I never return his calls. Blah, blah, blah! I come back with "what are you, my girlfriend or something?" I mean give me a break. Actually, the way he's been hounding me lately had me wondering if maybe he did like me or something. But I don't go for guys. I like women and he knows that. Some of my other friends told me they think he's gay. I don't see it, who knows?
Here's the kicker. He tells me he made reservations for us both (two rooms) at Pop Century for this Sunday night because he thought we were going up to WDW this Sunday! And now he has to pay for the rooms because it's too late to cancel. I'm like "Dude who told you to do that? I never said I was going this weekend. I don't know what to tell you. You don't need me to have fun, go on up without me." I can tell he's really getting mad on the phone and inside I'm thinking now would be the time to tell him to leave me alone from now on. This whole thing just rubbed me wrong. Then he says "I have $5,000 in the bank and when I get back I'm gonna bury you!" I didn't know what he meant so I asked him what he meant. And again he says it, "When I get back I'm gonna bury you!" Then he hangs up on me.
I sat there for a minute wondering what just happened. And I started to get mad. So I called him back. But he wouldn't pick up. Then I called again. Again he wouldn't pick up. So I left a message telling him to be a man and answer his phone and let's talk about this and if he didn't call me back tonight then just don't bother calling again. But isn't that strange? I'm still a little mad about it. By the way, he never called back. I hope I never hear from him again. But I wonder if I should worry about him coming around on Monday. We'll if you still reading thanks for letting me vent.
There's this guy I know who's crazy about WDW like I am. He used to be a neighbor of mine (luckily he now lives across town), that's how I met him. I can't remember how we started talking to each other, but Epcot came up in the conversation and we realized we had something in common and we started a friendship. For a few months everything was cool. We even went to Epcot together once. I love the place and will go with just about anybody. All I need is an excuse. Then he started to get kind of clingy. And the more I got to know him the less I wanted to be around the guy. He was constantly calling me, inviting me to lunch. Stuff like that. Like we were best friends or something. He would even tell me I was his best friend. I never told him he was mine. It's hard to explain. It got to the point where I started making up excuses not to talk to him or spend time with him. I have a hard time saying no to people so I'll usually just say "we'll see" when someone asks me to do something I don't wanna do.
Fast forward to last week. Some of you may know that Disney lifted it's block out dates for it's Florida Resident Seasonal Passes. This guy is on the phone calling me. Three or four times a day. Message after message, "let's go, we can go!" After a few days of this I finally call him back. You think he'd get the hint. He asks me if I want to go with him to Epcot and I tell him I can't, even though I want to go to Epcot (not with him), because I have to work, which is true. But then I made the fatal mistake of saying "we'll see" just to get him off the phone.
Now today, when I get home from work there is a message on my machine from him telling me it's important that I call him right away. So I call. He asks me if I'm working this weekend. And I say yeah. And I'm working all next week. So at the earliest I will be able to go is next weekend. Now I admit that I've done this to him before. You know, I kept putting him off and eventually blowing him off and going without him.
He starts getting all mad at me. Bringing up how I go with my other friends and not him. And I never return his calls. Blah, blah, blah! I come back with "what are you, my girlfriend or something?" I mean give me a break. Actually, the way he's been hounding me lately had me wondering if maybe he did like me or something. But I don't go for guys. I like women and he knows that. Some of my other friends told me they think he's gay. I don't see it, who knows?
Here's the kicker. He tells me he made reservations for us both (two rooms) at Pop Century for this Sunday night because he thought we were going up to WDW this Sunday! And now he has to pay for the rooms because it's too late to cancel. I'm like "Dude who told you to do that? I never said I was going this weekend. I don't know what to tell you. You don't need me to have fun, go on up without me." I can tell he's really getting mad on the phone and inside I'm thinking now would be the time to tell him to leave me alone from now on. This whole thing just rubbed me wrong. Then he says "I have $5,000 in the bank and when I get back I'm gonna bury you!" I didn't know what he meant so I asked him what he meant. And again he says it, "When I get back I'm gonna bury you!" Then he hangs up on me.
I sat there for a minute wondering what just happened. And I started to get mad. So I called him back. But he wouldn't pick up. Then I called again. Again he wouldn't pick up. So I left a message telling him to be a man and answer his phone and let's talk about this and if he didn't call me back tonight then just don't bother calling again. But isn't that strange? I'm still a little mad about it. By the way, he never called back. I hope I never hear from him again. But I wonder if I should worry about him coming around on Monday. We'll if you still reading thanks for letting me vent.