I am claustrophobic. I developed it in my mid-20s. Prior to that, I flew without a problem (I used to live in the Virgin Islands, so I flew all the time). Then, on a business trip, I got on, sat down and my hands started to shake and I needed OFF of that plane. The nice people around me had to help me.
For quite a few trips after that, I got a prescription....forget what it was...but it made me sleepy.
Now, I can fly without feeling panicky or sick. I even experienced one of those "ladies and gentlemen, we're number 30 in line for takeoff, so it'll be at least an hour!"....this past fall....and I was ok.
The kind of claustrophobia I have is fear of being trapped. It is not small spaces that bothers me (public restrooms were previously mentioned in this thread)...it is the fear of being trapped. Yes, on a plane, you ARE definitely trapped. You cannot reason around that, so you have to work with it.
Here's what I have learned about what I need:
1.Board last (when you are seated and everyone is walking around in the aisles getting to their seat, it feels very cramped and people are standing over you....avoid this!)
2. Sit near front. The rear (wing and behind the wing) bothers me because I am looking "down the tube".
3. Contrary to others here, I prefer window. When I'm on the aisle, I feel like I am too much "inside" of the crowd. If I sit at the window, I can put my face right up to it and look out. Seeing out helps me quite a bit. I can pretend I'm not on a plane.
4. IPOD/Noise Cancellation Headset.....put the headset on and drift away. I like opera on planes...I crank it up so I'm totally disconnected from the reality...and it is soothing. Sharper Image has great noise cancellation headphones (Bose). No noise gets in.
5. Like others have noted, turn on the air blowers as soon as you sit down.
6. Engross yourself in a good book or magazine. Start the book before you fly and get to a really good part.....then STOP reading til you are on board. Don't try to start something new on board. It is too hard to think about learning the caracters and setting when you're anxious. You can turn the noise cancellation headset on to "White Noise" (no sound)....when you are reading....and you still can't hear anything aroud you.
7. Avoid caffeine and alcohol
8. If you really feel panicked, tell your seatmate that you're claustrophobic and feeling a little anxious. People tend to be nice and they might just talk to you til you feel better. I fly alone quite a bit, so this might not apply if you are flying with friends or family who know the deal.
Hope this helps! I really thought I would never get over the claustrophobia on airplanes. It would have been a problem since I own a luxury TRAVEL business!! ha ha
Lastly, the more I fly, the easier it is. If I go several months without flying, it is always a little touchy the first time up. Other than that, I am to the point that I tell the little voice of claustrophobic fear to just "shut up!....I've got vacationing to do!"
