She does not need to be in a specific seat, but does cope better when she can sit 4-8 rows from the front of the plane. Not sure how my post gave you the impression that she lives miserably. I'll ignore your comments regarding drugs and therapy.
2 yes you can skip the stretching room just ask when you get in side.
OMG, if you actually made this work you're some kind of wizard. I'm visually impaired, and it isn't safe either for me or the people around me for me to walk through the stretching rooms and the passageway to the loading area, ever since the stretching rooms for made wheelchair-accessible every single CM has taken no signed with their own blood and pledging the life of their firstborn that nobody is going to get any kind of accommodation that lets them bypass. The old vision stamp in the old GAC days? Don't care. Walking into walls? Don't care. Ask for a manager? Wait 45 minutes to hear the same thing. One guy kept insisting, over and over, to the point of interrupting me mid-sentence, that it was physically impossible to enter the show building without going through the stretching rooms.
Since the HM CM'saren't required to act in a cheerful and sunny manner, way too many of them take that as an excuse to not actually be helpful.
So sure, you can ask, you should ask, never hurts to ask - just don't go in there blithely unprepared for disappointment.
Don't get me wrong, Disney is head and shoulders above most destinations for accommodation. But my first visit as an adult with disabilities was *way* more disappointing than it should have been, because I went in with this super-unrealistic attitude I gained from reading lots of message boards that said, "All you have to do is ask, and all the CM's will give you the accommodation you need regardless of whether it's part of written policy!"
The reality is that CM's are human beings like everyone else, and some have more caring and empathy than others. Some will go out of their way to make sure that people with disabilities get the same opportunities as able-bodied guests, and some will do only what the letter of the rulebook absolutely requires them to do, and no more.
(Some will try to do even less, like the college kid who told me I had to walk up the broken speed ramp at the end of Pirates of the Caribbean on crutches and a cast because 'Well, there *is* an elevator, but we're not supposed to use it' because he didn't feel like getting the keys and walking us over to the elevator doors.)
I had a much better time on my second visit, because my expectations about CM attitudes were a lot more realistic.
Are you talking about Disneyland or Disney world because at Disney world I have skipped the streaming room, ever time I have gone on for the last 3 years, I do not do this that often but will say at lest 50 to 60 time easily and ever time I have no problem with skipping it.
hmm that is ward I can think of 5 people I know personally that skip it for different reason and only one has a child ( 15, and the child has no disabilities at all. the last time I want someone behind me asked to skip it too. and I have not heard of anyone beside you say they have a hard time ( not saying that you did not I just do not remember it)Walt Disney World. And it's not just me; most of the people I've encountered online have had the same problem. I know that some people have had success bypassing the stretching room when they have small children who are frightened, but as far as adults, your experience is one I'm very rarely heard of.
(It would be different at Disneyland, because it's an elevator that takes you down to the tunnel under the berm that leads to the show building.)
hmm that is ward I can think of 5 people I know personally that skip it for different reason and only one has a child ( 15, and the child has no disabilities at all. the last time I want someone behind me asked to skip it too. and I have not heard of anyone beside you say they have a hard time ( not saying that you did not I just do not remember it)
sorry this happened to you maybe you can try agin when the line is not long and see what happens, you just might have had a bad CM and manager
sorry this happened to you but all I can say is what has happened to me and people I personally know that has asked for this, and it has worked for a number of people I know. I would suggest anyone that need to skip the stretching room to talk to the CM and explain why they need it.It wouldn't be *a* bad CM and manager, it would be many consistently bad CM's and managers over multiple trips, for multiple guests.
OMG, if you actually made this work you're some kind of wizard. I'm visually impaired, and it isn't safe either for me or the people around me for me to walk through the stretching rooms and the passageway to the loading area, ever since the stretching rooms for made wheelchair-accessible every single CM has taken no signed with their own blood and pledging the life of their firstborn that nobody is going to get any kind of accommodation that lets them bypass. The old vision stamp in the old GAC days? Don't care. Walking into walls? Don't care. Ask for a manager? Wait 45 minutes to hear the same thing. One guy kept insisting, over and over, to the point of interrupting me mid-sentence, that it was physically impossible to enter the show building without going through the stretching rooms.
Since the HM CM'saren't required to act in a cheerful and sunny manner, way too many of them take that as an excuse to not actually be helpful.
So sure, you can ask, you should ask, never hurts to ask - just don't go in there blithely unprepared for disappointment.
Don't get me wrong, Disney is head and shoulders above most destinations for accommodation. But my first visit as an adult with disabilities was *way* more disappointing than it should have been, because I went in with this super-unrealistic attitude I gained from reading lots of message boards that said, "All you have to do is ask, and all the CM's will give you the accommodation you need regardless of whether it's part of written policy!"
The reality is that CM's are human beings like everyone else, and some have more caring and empathy than others. Some will go out of their way to make sure that people with disabilities get the same opportunities as able-bodied guests, and some will do only what the letter of the rulebook absolutely requires them to do, and no more.
(Some will try to do even less, like the college kid who told me I had to walk up the broken speed ramp at the end of Pirates of the Caribbean on crutches and a cast because 'Well, there *is* an elevator, but we're not supposed to use it' because he didn't feel like getting the keys and walking us over to the elevator doors.)
I had a much better time on my second visit, because my expectations about CM attitudes were a lot more realistic.
This maybe why I never have had a problem as the HM is not one of the rides I really like so I only do it when it is slow and not many guest around. I have had a time or two the CM will say go out the door and stand by the crips and another CM will be with you soon.I skip the stretching room too. I once had a CM who tried to insist I couldn't. I didn't enter the stretching room. She told me I couldn't skip it. I said I most definitely can and did not go in. She asked her fellow CM about skipping and the other CM said "yes she can skip it" and then told her to take me down the hallway. She was annoyed that I was right. While we were waiting to board, a different CM told us that sometimes they try to do that and make it appear you cannot skip the stretching room when they are short/under staffed as it temporarily takes a CM away from an assigned position and it is just easier for the CMs not to let guests. But it can always be done. Don't let the CMs bully you.