I know that everyone has his or her favorite resort, but hoping some parents can give their two cents
We booked a deluxe CL room at WL next July and have been rethinking the deluxe bc of the expense. It's not out of the budget for us, but it is so much more than a regular CL room that it is beginning to feel hard to justify. Initially we thought we would like to have DS in the extra room as he is a light sleeper and we don't want to have to watch movies on our Ipad in the bathroom each night
So we are thinking of moving to a courtyard CL room at WL. But, then we also got to thinking... the Poly rooms seem so much larger. We wouldn't do CL at Poly (that's just as much as a Deluxe WL), but I wonder if that extra space is worth it?
We love the WL and our family will be staying at Ft. Wilderness (with golf carts), so that adds another piece to the puzzle.
We booked a deluxe CL room at WL next July and have been rethinking the deluxe bc of the expense. It's not out of the budget for us, but it is so much more than a regular CL room that it is beginning to feel hard to justify. Initially we thought we would like to have DS in the extra room as he is a light sleeper and we don't want to have to watch movies on our Ipad in the bathroom each night

So we are thinking of moving to a courtyard CL room at WL. But, then we also got to thinking... the Poly rooms seem so much larger. We wouldn't do CL at Poly (that's just as much as a Deluxe WL), but I wonder if that extra space is worth it?
We love the WL and our family will be staying at Ft. Wilderness (with golf carts), so that adds another piece to the puzzle.
At the WL, all rooms have balconies. If you really felt your DS couldn't sleep if you were awake watching a movie or had a light on in the room, you could sit out on your balcony. I had a woods view room at the WL and loved sitting on my balcony in the evening after DD was in bed and having a drink.
Plus you will be tired too and probably will fall asleep as soon as your body meets your bed! We always bring a fan to run for background noise, that might help your son sleep through any sounds you might make. Sometimes if the kids were really overly tired and cranky, DH and I would take turns leaving the room to hang in the CL lounge, but I'd say 99% of the time we all crashed together. I really think you'd be fine to downsize to the regular WL CL room since there are only 3 of you. Don't forget you'll have a balcony you can hang out on too if your son is sleeping. Our room had a nice view of the Electrical Water Pageant. Also having the CL lounge is like having an extra room! 
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