Info on dinner--you get a group picture with Cinderella before going upstairs to dine, but that's the only Princess experience with dinner. Waiters in castle footmen costume. Mouse maids from Cinderella movie (Susie & Perla) come out for hugs & pictures for about 10 min., going from table to table; then Cinderella's Fairy Godmother comes out & does a little song about "Celebrations", acknowledging everyone having a birthday, anniversary, wedding, etc. She does not go around to tables and does not stop for pictures, just does her little speech & song, then leaves. Nice little show, but it is not the usual character bit coming around to all the tables.
I did not see any kids getting wands &/or swords at dinner, but we didn't have any children with us so they may have given them out & we just didn't notice them. But there were kids all around us, I think we would have noticed if they had extra things like that. Could be the wand/sword deal is a lunch/breakfast only. There were a number of little princesses in their outfits/hairstyles & crowns from BBB.