in winter, i wear my jeans and uggs most weeks. i always dress like i would dress if i was going to the mall or something, as does almost everyone else in my church.
Wanda, i kind of agree with your point - i dont think that what you wear should be a distraction to yourself or anyone around you.
and Matt, if you aren't comfortable in your family's church, maybe you should try another denomination. there will probably always be fakers in every church, but finding the right church for you can be extremely beneficial to your growth. there are also other reasons, but i'm going to leave it here so i dont break any rules...