We will have a spiral cut ham with homemade honey mustard sauce, cheesy potatoes or mashed potatoes, a jello mold, hawaiin rolls, green beans and homemade sugar cookies. I also make a slush punch. My SILs bring the wine, my mom brings the potatoes and my MIL does the jello mold and greenbeans. So we just do the rolls, ham and honey mustard, cookies and punch. It works out well to split it up a bit.