Hi grim!
You don't know me, but I was playing with a web site that you can type names into and it lists message boards that the name comes up on. I was typing in people I knew, and I had a really good childhood friend named DeDe that I lost contact with, so I put it in there. This site came up. I can't be sure, but your wife MIGHT be my old friend, and if she is I would love for her to contact me again.
My name was Gina S., and we went elementary school together in Tucson. I moved away but we kept in contact for a lot of years before we both sort of went our separate ways after high school. Could you ask her, since you say she doesn't come here much anymore, if she is the DeDe I knew?
My e-mail is: its_just_gina at yahoo dot com
Thanks, and congratulations for your beautiful daughter!
Gina *trying very hard not to look like a creepy stalker*