Hi all --
Ginny, I hope your mom is doing well - what a week you had. I have had similar experiences with both of my parents when they were in the hospital - little angels while family members were there, and then they turn in to the patients from H__L when we leave! I think part of it has to do with Sundown Syndrome - my father tried to leave the hospital twice in the early evening, the nurses said he was very, very agitated and wanted to go home. I guess at that age, they are not used to being told what to do. My sister and I have always thought that if they were that agitated and such a pain, they must be on their way to getting better!!
Lynn - congratulations!!! AWESOME LOSS!!
Julie - hadn't thought at all about the gift wrapping - what a pain! I wondered if it is worthwhile posting on the main board about that - surely people have celebrated birthdays, etc. Maybe someone will have a good suggestion.
I think Jim has something in mind for the green mickies - he posted (I think in his "getting prepared" post) that he had been to Home Depot and gotten the green mickies, and "hoped he had enough".
Have you seen the shirts in the Dis store yet? I do forget that they cannot put characters, etc. on them because of licensing issues. I emailed Dorothy Kurz (d.kurz) several times yesterday regarding possibility of special orders with our board names - she said it was on the drawing board, had been talked about, and didn't think it would materialize before we left for our cruise. She said she had thought about getting iron-on letters - I asked her if we could buy the shirts and then "embellish" them - she said that was fine. Not sure what we are going to do - I sincerely doubt that I will get DH into a matching shirt -- maybe the gray one?? the other issue for me is what would I put for the girls - neither of them will appreciate the fact that the day I registered on these boards they were at their worst - I don't think they will appreciate the names of Maleficent and Grump!! May go with Grumpy Mom's DD-17 ! that's interesting, believe the name is Grumpy's Mom -- they would probably love it the other way around!!
We are planning on telling the girls tonight, if the eldest gets home from birthday date with BF in time.
I put together a written invitation that is about 17 pages long (it has all kinds of good stuff in it, flight, where we are staying, the
MVMCP, the cruise itinerary, excursions, dinner rotation and dress, onboard fun, etc. I broke it up into about 26 pages, with one event or subject on each page.
I am going to divide the pages in two piles of alternating pages, begining with the invitation, and turn them upside down, and have them each read outloud their pages in alternating sequence - that way, they each will be surprised by what is being read, and no one can read further down the page before the other, etc.
I included all the cites to the boards, the
DCL site, Dave's site, etc. and instructed them to come prepared to a family meeting next Monday night, 10/20 with their wish list - so that we can plan our excursions together, and make ressies the next day.
I hope they will be thrilled!! Will post tomorrow about how it goes.