Just ate at the Palm last week. Asked for a children's menu for the 14 year old, but they refused. I do understand, but he just doesn't have a big appetite yet, and doesn't care for steak. He did have a shrimp cocktail, and a big side order of mashed potatoes. (We had a gift certificate for the Palm, so we did want to use it.) My DS(16) loved it, had a huge NY strip. I had the prime rib, it was very good, but way too much food. The dress code is resort casual. Both sons wore Docker type shorts, with collared shirts. I wore a Skort, with a knit top. Believe me, there were people less dressed up. Your husband's outfit will be fine. (oh, and very good key lime pie)