My kids have not flown since they were infants (and I didn't fly with them), so I have no idea if they will have ear pain when they fly.
My dd takes asthma meds and is not allowed to have a decongestant. She is usually "slightly sniffy" due to allergies, so I'm worried about her ears. I am looking for child-sized earplanes and hope that she will wear them OK. She has had some bad expereinces at the ENT dr. and is fussy about things touching the inside of her ears, though I will most likely insist on the Earplanes because I think she'll need them--especially since I can't give her a decongestant. I am also going to stock up on gum and chewy candy, plus pack a water bottle for each kid.
I can give ds some Sudafed, so he should be OK. We are flying SW and I hope to get A seating so I can sit with the kids and help them if their ears hurt.
I am also worried about myself. It's been well over 10 years since I've flown. When I did fly as a child/teen/young adult, I had ear pain so awful that I can't describe it. It hurt so bad that my entire jaw was in extreme pain. I was in tears the last time I was on a plane. I am going to give Earplanes a try and will hope that makes a difference. I am also trying my best to get a direct flight so we have to deal with take-off/landing only 1 time each way.
If those Earplanes work, I will be relieved!