Childfree (by choice) Disney Lovers!

[SanFranciscan]

I would like to read that WSJ article. Could you post a link to the issue, or tell me when it was published?

It is at wsj.com. The article was in the Wednesday, August 8, 2012 edition and entitled "Move over kids, it's grown-up time". There is a video on the site as well.

Someone posting on a discussion board for themed entertainment workers was talking about how overlooked the elderly have been in the themed park industry as well. This I would believe because I was often asked while working at Universal Studios which of our rides were the most senior-friendly.

The parks are getting smarter about the need to attract a crowd whose attendance is not dictated by a school calendar.

 

[sewmess]

I will now be reading the posts that were made here while I was away because I would really like to know at what age y'all realized that you would not have children. I always assumed that I would have children, but then I met my husband. He told me that he did not like primative demanding creatures, which is how he viewed babies. I don't know how I am going to feel if I am an old lady without children, but I guess that it is better to regret the children that we did not have than the children that we did.

DH and I never really made a decision, his childhood issues did that for us, we assume. Now that our close friends are having (and adopting) babies, we're not really all that anxious to do any extreme measures to have kids. They've got alots of baggage, literally.

I would have said that I would never have kids when I was a teen, but I learned from my older sister never to say never. She swore when she was a teen that she would never get married. And she got married right out of college. So what I would say is "I can't imagine caring enough for any man to want to join our DNA." And I never did care enough for any man until I was 29.

 

[zima-cheryl]

I will now be reading the posts that were made here while I was away because I would really like to know at what age y'all realized that you would not have children. I always assumed that I would have children, but then I met my husband. He told me that he did not like primative demanding creatures, which is how he viewed babies. I don't know how I am going to feel if I am an old lady without children, but I guess that it is better to regret the children that we did not have than the children that we did.

Always assumed we would, but when we got married in our mid 20's said in 10 years or so & promptly put it out of mind. Jump ahead 10 years & it was more like 'rats here we are' than 'hooray,a baby'. DH pointed out to me that it was not required. So instead of seeing my doc to discuss babies, it was to discuss permanent prevention. It was a relief for us to not have to worry about it & be able to focus on other things that we enjoy.

 

[zanzibar138]

Signing in!

DH and I are recently married (6 months tomorrow!), and I hate how everyone just assumes we will now be having kids! I completely agree with Blue that you should only have kids if you feel a pull, and I really feel no desire at all to have a baby.

We've decided that we can make a more important contribution to society by donating some of the time and money that we might have spent on kids to good causes, and being good friends and neighbours

But back to Disney I am a complete Disney nut, and completely agree that Disney is not just for kids. I've really enjoyed my 2 adult Disney travel experiences, just doing our own thing, enjoying adult experiences like nice meals, late nights and people watching, and not having to lug around strollers and nappy (diaper) bags. Oh, and being able to go at quiet times, not having to work around school holidays!

 

[zima-cheryl]

Signing in!

DH and I are recently married (6 months tomorrow!), and I hate how everyone just assumes we will now be having kids! I completely agree with Blue that you should only have kids if you feel a pull, and I really feel no desire at all to have a baby.

We've decided that we can make a more important contribution to society by donating some of the time and money that we might have spent on kids to good causes, and being good friends and neighbours

But back to Disney I am a complete Disney nut, and completely agree that Disney is not just for kids. I've really enjoyed my 2 adult Disney travel experiences, just doing our own thing, enjoying adult experiences like nice meals, late nights and people watching, and not having to lug around strollers and nappy (diaper) bags. Oh, and being able to go at quiet times, not having to work around school holidays!

The other great thing about going at quiet times is the rates are usually better & there are deals to be had!

 

[dgbg100106]

The other great thing about going at quiet times is the rates are usually better & there are deals to be had!

 

[Stefjp]

Wow- just found this thread for the first time and it's been a real interesting read.

I would fall into the "CF by choice........for now" category. My BF and I are going to WDW just the two of us, and sooooooooo many people have asked why we would bother if we don't have kids. My response is that We to experience it fully - to be able do what We want, when We want and go where we want to without having to worry about a child. That gets afew looks that could kill me!!!

Seriously though, I say "CF by choice........for now" as I've not 100% ruled it out. It's my first trip to WDW for a long time and my BF has never been. Why would I wait until we (possibly) have kids before having our first WDW experience together?

 

[zanzibar138]

Wow- just found this thread for the first time and it's been a real interesting read.

I would fall into the "CF by choice........for now" category. My BF and I are going to WDW just the two of us, and sooooooooo many people have asked why we would bother if we don't have kids. My response is that We to experience it fully - to be able do what We want, when We want and go where we want to without having to worry about a child. That gets afew looks that could kill me!!!

Seriously though, I say "CF by choice........for now" as I've not 100% ruled it out. It's my first trip to WDW for a long time and my BF has never been. Why would I wait until we (possibly) have kids before having our first WDW experience together?

Completely agree with this one

When I was so desperate to go to Disneyland people kept asking me why I didn't just wait til we had kids. I got so annoyed! I got some weird looks when I said I'd prefer to experience it as an adult first, to be able to do exactly what I wanted and enjoy the adult experiences as well as turning back into a kid for a while.

As a child-free adult at Disney, I can still experience the joy in the kids around me, and be entertained by their antics, but don't have to worry about my afternoon being spoiled by a 2 year old meltdown because I want to ride SM instead of Dumbo again!

 

[zima-cheryl]

Not to mention all the cool things you can't even do with kids.
Victoria & Albert's, some of the tours (segway tour @ Epcot is not to be missed ), & the Richard Petty Ride along.
There really are many things that are adult only (or at least teens & older only).

Plus, how romantic taking a carriage ride at Ft. Wilderness just you & that special someone. Or a nice late diner @ Bistro de Paris & watching illuminations?

Sometimes even just hanging at the pool, splurging for the cabanna (if at a delux) and relaxing with a good book & a few adult beverages all day.

 

[BeadyLady]

We've had kids and grandkids and still only want to be alone at WDW. Nice to be alone.

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[Sparkly]

I'm barely an adult myself at 18, but looking forward to being able to take solo trips to Disney and do what I want, stay where I want and have a great time.

NOT looking forward to bills, taxes, job hunting and all those things

 

[CruisingGoddess]

Need some childfree advice on where to eat for our first trip to Universal Orlando. We're staying at Portofino Bay and I'm specifically looking for places to eat for dinner on Thanksgiving night and the night after. If you've got any "must eats" during the day too, please let me know!

 

[zima-cheryl]

Need some childfree advice on where to eat for our first trip to Universal Orlando. We're staying at Portofino Bay and I'm specifically looking for places to eat for dinner on Thanksgiving night and the night after. If you've got any "must eats" during the day too, please let me know!

Unfortunately I can't help you out - we've not been to Universal since before they added the second park (yeah... its been a few years )

Are you set on Universal? If not, check out Downtown Disney. Our two favs are Paradiso 37 and Ragalan Road. I believe you can call both directly for reservations, you don't have to do an ADR for them via Disney. (I think being out of the hotels & parks like they are makes them a hybrid of ADRs & regular reservations.) What ever you do you should call soon - I imagine Thanksgiving will fill up quick!

 

[zima-cheryl]

WaHoo!

Just changed our reservations for DH's birthday trip.
Going from the Contemporary room to Concierge level @ AKL and knocked $900 off the price!!

I still don't understand how that quite worked?!?!
We booked it before someone @ WDW woke up & figured it out and took the deal away.

 

[t_daniels]

Late to the party...but this is definitely the thread for me!

Childless, and on our third trip.

 

[t_daniels]

I'm barely an adult myself at 18, but looking forward to being able to take solo trips to Disney and do what I want, stay where I want and have a great time.

NOT looking forward to bills, taxes, job hunting and all those things

Yeah....bills and taxes suck.

 

[t_daniels]

Signing in!

DH and I are recently married (6 months tomorrow!), and I hate how everyone just assumes we will now be having kids! I completely agree with Blue that you should only have kids if you feel a pull, and I really feel no desire at all to have a baby.

We've decided that we can make a more important contribution to society by donating some of the time and money that we might have spent on kids to good causes, and being good friends and neighbours

But back to Disney I am a complete Disney nut, and completely agree that Disney is not just for kids. I've really enjoyed my 2 adult Disney travel experiences, just doing our own thing, enjoying adult experiences like nice meals, late nights and people watching, and not having to lug around strollers and nappy (diaper) bags. Oh, and being able to go at quiet times, not having to work around school holidays!

It doesn't stop.

We've been married almost 5 years. Still getting asked when babies are coming.

 

[Kilted Candyman]

It doesn't stop.

We've been married almost 5 years. Still getting asked when babies are coming.

17 years for use and 44. People keep saying "Oh, you still have time and may change your mind."



Jim

 

[franandaj]

Late to the party...but this is definitely the thread for me!

Childless, and on our third trip.

Hi! I didn't know you were child free!

Cheryl that's a great score for AKL! Are you going for F&W?

 

[t_daniels]

17 years for use and 44. People keep saying "Oh, you still have time and may change your mind."



Jim

Hahaha. I'm thinking I need a better, more.....creative reply. Hmmm.

Hi! I didn't know you were child free!

Cheryl that's a great score for AKL! Are you going for F&W?

Hi!! Fancy seeing you here!!!
Yup. Married almost 4(crap. I said 5 earlier.....) years.. Kidless, but two cats. Debating a bunny.

And currently planning a May trip! Happy dance !