I don't know if this helps or not but the croque monsieur is my husbands favorite sandwich so when we were there on our anniversary we got the recipe directly from chefs de france and now make it at home. if you can make a basic grilled cheese sandwich you can kick it up a notch and make these. thought i'd share...
Croque Monsieur: Chefs de France, Epcot
MAKES: 4 sandwiches
2 tablespoons minced shallots
2 to 3 tablespoons butter, at room temperature
1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
1/4 cup fat-skimmed chicken broth
1/4 cup milk or whipping cream (they said they use whipping cream)
6 ounces gruyère cheese, shredded (1 1/2 cups)
4 slices of Gruyère cheese, thickly sliced
1/16 teaspoon fresh-grated or ground nutmeg
8 slices firm white bread
1/4 pound sliced cooked ham
Shredded provolone, parmesan and Swiss mixed together
1. In a 10- to 12-inch nonstick frying pan over medium-high heat, stir shallots in 1-tablespoon butter. Stir often until golden, about 3 minutes. Add flour; stir until blended. Remove from heat and add broth and milk; whisk to blend well. Return to heat and whisk until mixture is boiling vigorously. Remove from heat and add cheese and nutmeg; stir until cheese is melted. Pour sauce into a bowl.
2. Lightly butter one side of each bread slice and lay buttered sides down on a sheet pan. Divide half the cheese sauce equally among 4 slices; spread sauce to edges. Lay ham, cheese equally over sauce, top with the remaining bread slices.
3. Place the provolone, parmesan and Swiss cheese on top of the bread and bake in the oven until cheese is melted.