we were having family drama, and there was so much drama around the venues.... we said forget the family/friends wedding in november 2012.... and we switched to the memories for just the two of us on the poly beach---we're 10 weeks away!!! i feel like i made the best decision as i was trying to stay positive about all the construction--but i think it really is going to be worse than they made it out to be. i'm glad i won't have to go thru the anxiety of watching it for another 14 months!