Just got an email from my daughter's 10th grade honors language arts teacher. The next unit involves reading and analyzing Catcher in the Rye, and gives parents the opportunity to "opt out" of having their kids read it. Seriously?
What am I missing? This hardly seems like the novel that 10th graders should be "shielded" from reading. These are not middle schoolers or elementary age children. I guarantee that my D will not be "learning" anything new from this book. She's in high school. Believe me, she's heard worse than any language or theme in this book.
My children are both nearing the age when they will be out from under my direct control. It is important, IMO, for them to be exposed to these real world topics before they are. We discuss sexuality in our house and appropriate expression of it. I'm not worried that some book is going to unduly influence them
I can't imagine their are parents who think their 15-16 year old children (a) don't already know about the things in this book, and/or (b) want to shield them from it.
What am I missing? This hardly seems like the novel that 10th graders should be "shielded" from reading. These are not middle schoolers or elementary age children. I guarantee that my D will not be "learning" anything new from this book. She's in high school. Believe me, she's heard worse than any language or theme in this book.
My children are both nearing the age when they will be out from under my direct control. It is important, IMO, for them to be exposed to these real world topics before they are. We discuss sexuality in our house and appropriate expression of it. I'm not worried that some book is going to unduly influence them
I can't imagine their are parents who think their 15-16 year old children (a) don't already know about the things in this book, and/or (b) want to shield them from it.

I hate that book too! I haven't read The Catcher in Rye, so I can't comment. I think by that age they should be able to read it. There is much worse out there marketed to that age.
in regards to what they see, read and listen to.
to see the amount of kids 12 and under at Furious 7 the other night.
. We preach no violence, lock all the school doors, have a police officer there all the time, but yet it's ok for the kids to read about violence in school - I don't get it