Sigh. You guys have all given me such wonderful advice that I was hopeful if I presented myself in a professional manner and showed that I was educated on the situation & knew what I was talking about, that I'd make some progress. I view this all as a negotiation... I don't expect to get NADA or KBB values, but even if they were to meet me at the LOW end of the cars currently offered, I would be happy.
And I got jack squat. Basically a big ole', "this is what it is, so deal with it."
I called and told them that I wasn't satisfied with the offered settlement due to the discrepancies between the vehicles used to asses real market value and the cars that are REALLY on the market, as well as the KBB & NADA values of my car. I informed him of the current search results on cars.com, autotrader.com and the various local dealers. They ranged between $14,900 & $16,900. The values listed on the cars from the insurance company (the search was apparently done by JD Power) were from $12,000 - $13,500.
He said, "well those are the numbers that JD Power gave me and they are what they are. Those are the values of the cars for sale in your area."
Again, I told him that the numbers were, simply, low-balled. Not a single one of the vehicles referenced was currently on the market still and 3 of them didn't even provide complete VIN or dealer information for me to contact the dealer & do research to confirm (aka, make sure it wasn't a wholesaler or auction, which it HAD to be to sell my model/year car for $12k).
The only thing he offered was to write-off the "projected selling value" that they deducted from 3 of the cars on the list (he said he and his manager talked about it & that was what they were able to do). In all, he came up from $13,000 to $13,500.
Still not enough money for me to be able to purchase a comparable car.
I told him that if we weren't able to come to an agreement that I was unfortunately going to have to refer the situation over to my family lawyer (a person who, at this point in time, is non-existent!). I also asked where I should submit my medical bills since my shoulder was still bothering me and I was afraid that I was going to have to see a doctor for it.
He told me to let him know once I transferred everything to the lawyer because at that point he could no longer speak to me re: the situation.
And that was that.
I feel like I was completely disregarded by him. He wouldn't conceded a single thing when faced with some pretty simple facts.
I don't know what to do at this point. Submit my proof of real market value in writing? Contact the state insurance office? Sit on my hands and bank on him calling tomorrow with a better offer?
DH & I thought about possibly playing "good cop, bad cop" (since he actually IS the nice one of our relationship, lol!) and have him call tomorrow... apologize for my pushiness and telling him that he really didn't want to go to all of the hassle of a lawsuit or arbitration because he's starting a new job next week (true) & yadda, yadda, yadda. So he'd settle for $14,000 even with no deductions for "excessive wear" (they're trying to take another $200 off the value because the previous owner was clearly pooh-sized and the driver seat is rather... sat-in-looking).
You think that would work? I'm just so flabbergasted and lost and just want it over with so that we can move on & not think about it anymore.