Ok, Jan, I didn't take your advice and I went and used a 30D.... that was my first mistake. I've been saving money for some time now and trying to get the camera of my dreams. I just wasn't making the money that I really needed, but I kept scraping and pinching my pennies. I was close to what I needed, but then there were lenses to think of.... My Lord what a choice! Well, to make a long story short, I will owe my parents forever. Out of the blue, they matched my money (and then some) and I made my purchase.

It arrived today.

Please, someone tell me I did the right thing here! Here it is:
I had trouble getting a real nice sharp focus with the 70-200 lens. I am assuming that due to it's massive weight, I should be using some sort of tripod/monopod when using it. It has the IS, but I don't know if it is enough.
The 50mm DOF is so shallow, I get almost nothing in focus. I'll be playing with that one for awhile before mastering it, I would guess. Looks great in the viewfinder, but the pics are out of focus.
I opted to buy the 30D body only and get the 17-85IS lens as I thought 28-135 was a bit too wide and would overlap the 70-200 too much. Plus I have not heard great things about some of those lenses. Hit or Miss I suppose. The 17-85 seems great! A little slow, but I'll live.
Now I'm saving for a flash and a macro lens of some sort. Any suggestions on those items?
Wish me luck. I'm now on another massive learning curve...
Andy