rachel_a18
Earning My Ears
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Have you found out anything yet?
Nope - no word yet from the member.

Will keep you guys posted! Thanks for the encouragement!
Have you found out anything yet?
this is definitely selffish act...
As much as she may have legitimate issues/health/death in family, etc., there is too much uncertainty with this transaction--it's not your neighbor or friend--it's a total stranger--you called and have given her ample time to make it right. You have filed paypal dispute--your evidence is to print out the online reservation that says "Canceled." Even if you had an airtight contract with no cancels for any reason, when you saw the "cancel" online, that is a repudiation of the contract from her---so her side canceled on you!
Make a back up reservation right now at a hotel (lots of them for great prices) that you can cancel at 48 hours, etc., while you sort things out--that way, you still can salvage your trip. Sometimes, WDW offers free dining, etc. in December, so there still might a be decent deal that comes up later--or, AFTER you get your $$ back, you can try to rent points from someone else that others on this BB have dealt with. WDW will always be there, good luck with school. Elaine
Actually I explained why I did not think this was a scam in my first post on this thread (#18):OK Jim, I'll play. Could you tell me what would be an evidence of a scam for you? Just for future reference.....
To amplify further, there is a huge difference between a scam and a bad business deal -- or a good business deal gone bad. In order for me to think there was a scam here, I'd have to see some scrap of criminal intent -- something like a pattern of similar behavior, an attempt to conceal the owner's true identity or other relevant information, multiple victims, etc. None of that has happened. I have to say, if this situation is a scam, it is the worst-conceived scam I've ever seen!JimMIA said:The steps you went through - extensive email exchange, personal telephone contact, written contract - do not sound like steps a ripoff artist would go through. Nor is using Paypal. A ripoff artist would pressure you to pay quickly in a manner that is difficult to trace, and if you insisted on going through the good procedure you used, they'd just move on to another victim.
Sure, I think we all agree the owner's response here has been poor. As a matter of fact, if this happened to me I think I'd be much more angry than OP is.cmbar said:Because I gotta say, when someone has paid for a reservation that is no longer there and has difficulty getting that information from the rentor, then I gotta believe something is going on. A legit rentor would bend over backwards to fix a "mix up" or "mistake". At least be in contact with the renter to tell them they couldn't make the call, couldn't get the reservation, couldn't fix the mess they made.
Actually I explained why I did not think this was a scam in my first post on this thread (#18).
In order for me to think there was a scam here, I'd have to see some scrap of criminal intent -- something like a pattern of similar behavior, an attempt to conceal the owner's true identity or other relevant information, multiple victims, etc. None of that has happened.
An assumption on your part...and you know what happens when we assume?
May I be so bold as to ask the OP why you are not communicating by telephone? Regardless of the lessors current life's problems, they have an obligation to respond in real time to your distress.
David
Let us know when/if you get the refund. I hope it comes through but I am still skeptical.Quick update: I did get a response from the member stating:
"I understand and it's no problem. I will issue a full refund to you, as per the agreement."
Hopefully now its just a matter of time before the money gets transferred back, and I can find another renter or just book direct with Disney! She has not communicated with Paypal, from what I can see on my end... but if that money comes through, we won't need Paypal to get involved.
And thank you guys for the well-wishes with school! Economics makes my head spin, but I'm using my hard work as an excuse to justify the Disney vacation![]()
Quick update: I did get a response from the member stating:
"I understand and it's no problem. I will issue a full refund to you, as per the agreement."
Hopefully now its just a matter of time before the money gets transferred back, and I can find another renter or just book direct with Disney! She has not communicated with Paypal, from what I can see on my end... but if that money comes through, we won't need Paypal to get involved.
And thank you guys for the well-wishes with school! Economics makes my head spin, but I'm using my hard work as an excuse to justify the Disney vacation![]()
Actually, I think if you go back and read my response, you'll see that I quoted classic indicators of criminal intent in fraud cases (course of conduct, concealment, deceipt, multiple victims, etc.). There are many others, but I didn't want to get into a tedious discussion of fraud investigation.I still dont see where CMBARs question has been answered as to what youd consider evidence.
Right. Because the nature of fraud revolves around concealing both the transactions and the intent, there's a wide range. Sometimes the evidence is very subtle and difficult to obtain as in the Enron and President of Mexico/Citibank cases. Other times it's braindead, in your face as in "Book this number or I'll throw you out the window" (WorldCom).Also, as you know, there isnt always evidence or criminal intent when a crime is committed. If a clerk takes $20 from her cash register with the intention to pay it back the next day, she is still a thief, even if there was no criminal intent (just borrowing it until payday).
You might want to rethink this example of intent. I'm sure you didn't mean to say there is such a thing as unintentional rape. The fact that a crime is unreported has nothing to do with the intent of the criminal. Rape is like armed robbery - the intent is quite obvious.If a woman gets raped and doesnt report it until 30 days later, after all evidence may have been destroyed, it doesnt mean she wasnt raped.