OK, now I think I'm seeing the confusion!
If you book through WDTC, or places that book through them (Costco,
AAA, getawaytoday.com, etc), you are getting a package. A package includes the parkhoppers and all the other things you can get. A package is not always the best deal at all, but it's convenient, especially for a first trip to DLR, and it is, in fact, the way we had our first BIG trip in September.
While there in Sept, we upgraded our 5 day parkhoppers to APs. So, now, the world of packages is done for us, at least until those APs expire next Sept.
The normal discount for the hotels is only 10%, I believe. That's not THAT much, but if you really want to stay onsite and don't have access to a package, it's better than no discount! The special AP discounts are where the big savings come in, but they aren't there all the time. This current AP5 discount is only through March 6.
Booking things a la carte means giving up the mickey's toontown morning madness vouchers, the lanyard, starter pin, and all those sorts of things. And the Disney gift certificate*. If those things are important to you, then don't give them up!
But if you really crunch the numbers, you could work out a mishmash where you buy a package deal, then when you get there one of you could upgrade to an AP to get the discounts on food (and merchandise if you get the Premium AP), and it could work out well for you.
But it's all up to what you want, and what is important to you.
For me, being in WA, it was only important that we got the APs because we KNOW that we'll be back inside of a year. And we already have been, I'm going solo for one night in two weeks, I'm trying to go in April for the ladies only Dis trip, and we want to go for DS's birthday in May. Then we still have to the middle of September until our APs expire, so who knows what might happen! Like I mentioned, the 5 day hopper through the package plus just one one-day ticket was going to cost more than the AP, plus there are the discounts, so it just didn't make financial sense to NOT get the AP if we could.
But if you only plan this one trip inside of a year, then a package might make far more sense to you!
Of course, it's amazing the number of trips some can justify, when one's admission is already paid for.
* when we booked our Sept package at the PP for 4 nights through Costco Travel, we only got a paltry $20 disney gift cert. harumph. and we ended up liking HoJo's at $54/night better, LOL.