Sian said:
One more question - what happens to kids who really struggle and can't progress? Do you end up with 10 year olds in 1st grade with the tinies because they can't master reading?
I think I'm pretty qualified to answer this question. I'll use my own experience as the example because it probably varies a lot by state and I don't know the laws in all 50 states.
My son was held back in his 1st year of kindergarten. I don't think most schools would simply hold a student back today at such a young age without the parent agreeing (we agreed btw). In kindergarten, there really isn't much testing (if any), so it's not like your child failed per say, it's mostly just that they're not on level with the other students. Does that make sense?
Anyway, when my son was in 1st grade, that teacher wanted to have him tested. To that point, we all knew he was below the other kids. For me, I didn't know what to do at home. I was trying to work with him, but he just wasn't getting it. I think at school some of the teachers thought I wasn't doing anything at home. Of course, that might have been my imagination too. LOL In 1st grade however I knew his teacher and she knew I was trying. He was tested (state IEP testing) and my son was diagnosed with a learning disability.
At that time, different things in school have been adapted for him. He's in a special reading class, has taken speech classes (I always thought these were a waste of time because he's never had a speech problem) etc... In those earlier years, he need extra help for math, social studies, science etc simply because of all the reading. His disability is in reading/writing, but he's always been with the regular classes (with extra help for testing and such due to the reading) for all the other subjects. In the early years, he was only given half a year of science and the other half the year of social studies to pick up extra reading classes. He'd also be pulled out of some classes from time to time to get extra help with reading. Sometimes he'd use some of the great programs on the computer. In our case, the school tried a variety of programs/tactics and courses to determine what worked best for my son. When they found out what worked, they emphasized those programs.
My son is going into 8th grade this year and while he's still behind about 3 years in reading, he continues to make progress each year and everyone I have ever talked to believes that my son will overcome this disability. He is now in all regular classes (except reading), and he even got a 99% (averaged 4 marking periods, mid term, and final grade, with NO help at all) for his final math grade last year. Of course math has always been his strength.
I don't think I'm the exception in public schools anymore. The schools work so closely to help all students overcome whatever their problem. Keep in mind however, if your child is like mine, your child is going to need a lot of help from home in most cases. The schools can't do it alone. There have been many a night where homework has taken us 5 or 6 hours.