Hey Judy...it's Holly. Love you!!
Christmas at the Fort is....well.....magical. We spent Christmas there in 2011. DD was 7. On a very basic level, it was sooooo cool to wake up on Christmas morning in our camper! DD, ummmmm, still believes - so it was so fun planning for Santa in such a small space. So fun!
She did not see Santa anywhere before we left for WDW. She saw him at MK...sat in his lap and gave him her list. That by itself was SO cool. Santa pictures at MK are a priceless memory.
The decor EVERYWHERE is unbelieveable. Make sure you see the Christmas trees in all 4 parks. Do the resort tour. Buy gingerbread at the Grand Floridian.
MVMCP is totally awesome. The parade was the best part. Loved the gingerbread men and toy soldiers. Snow falling on Main Street was awesome too. The snickerdoodle cookies were DH's favorite thing.
The Osborne Lights cannot be described with words, and pictures do not do them justice. Incredible.
Hearing Christmas music as you do the parks and tour the resorts is awesome too.
The best part, in my opinion, is the Candlelight Processional. AH-MAAAAA-ZING. Emotional. If this is on your must do list (and it should be), I highly encourage you to do the dining package so you have a guaranteed seat.
All of this being said - the days right around Christmas, especially the days between Christmas and New Years, are the busiest days of the year at Disney. The year we went, Christmas Day was on a Sunday. We checked in on Saturday, 12/17. Saturday through Tuesday were great! Wednesday the crowds started picking up. By Friday, the place was nuts. We were in MK on Christmas Eve - we had a 6pm ressie at Liberty Tree Tavern for our Christmas Eve meal - and it took us 30 minutes to walk from the hub in Town Square to the hub at the Castle. Not exaggerating. It was shoulder to shoulder to shoulder people. We rode 3 rides - Peoplemover, Tea Cups and the Carousel - and that was all. But....the atmosphere was purely electric. Everyone in a happy mood. Everyone singing Christmas carols on the ferry from MK to FW.
The weather we had was awesome! We had the windows open every single day and night. I was very concerned about it though, as I believe just the Christmas before they saw record lows (or at least the time around the holiday, I know it was very cold). We could have been in the pool every afternoon.
I booked that trip 15 months out. Ressie window opened in August 2010 and I booked the day it opened. The anticipation of that trip nearly made me CA-RAZY. Haha.
You really, really have to go into a trip at Christmas with one thought in mind. You will NOT be able to go commando every single day and hit every single ride/attraction/show you want to. Focus on the things you really want to do, and bake in time to do things that are holiday specific, thus you can't do them at any other time. And, just take it all in.
Pure.Magic.