Why are y'all making this out to be so complicated? Seriously.
You don't need a room request. The only time you ever need a room request is if there is something specific you want. You don't have specific wants until you've been a couple times. Like, we loved the first room we got, so we requested it on future trips. Simple. If you stay in any hotel anywhere, do you feel obligated to study it and make a room request? That is just an uber-planner being an uber-planner (not good or bad, but definitely not necessary!)
ADRs? Really are those hard? To pick out a restaurant and make a reservation? You just call WDW-DINE and the ultra-friendly rep will make them all for you in one call. Done!
And FP+'s you do *not* have to stay up late for. Especially if you're a resort guest, you can do this any time in the first few weeks of your eligibility and do just fine.
To me it sounds like all this difficulty is self-imposed by deciding up front that you must score everything that everyone else as group cannot. Yeah if you set out to get pre-open adr's to BOG, FP's to A&E, and a particular room, that might be stressful because those are all hard to get. But most guests have no idea they would even want that.
In our earlier trips we just went. No room request. No ADRs. It's Disney World! And yes all the stress comes from the parents... the kids would have a blast eating QS and playing the games while they wait STANDBY for Space Mountain. It is only the parents that get bored. Sheesh. Ppl make this out to be so difficult and then try to say that is the standard takeaway when it's just not.
The standard takeaway of the 16M visitors or whatever is not "too technical, too hard to eat, too hard to ride". It's "Disney World is amazing, we love it because it's so different from a normal theme park.. the cast is so friendly and everything is so clean". Really. That's kind of the general consensus. Think about it. If it was as bad as ppl are saying here, folks would not STILL BE GOING.
It's nice that you don't have a problem with any of this, but it is quite obvious that many, many others do have a problem with fp's, adr's, crowds, all of the above. I'm glad you don't understand it, but just because you do not understand it does not mean that others do not have valid observations about their experiences. It does no good to put others viewpoints down as you are doing. It is this condescending attitude that puts others off.
Everyone on the dis should be able to post their valid viewpoints of their experiences as they see them. Your belittling remarks serve no purpose except to try to make other posters look ridiculous and small. I, for one, enjoy hearing all the viewpoints about fp, adrs, etc that are posted without exception. I like to learn from others experiences and make my own mind up.
So please don't put others down who do not think like you. Believe me, there ARE several that do not.
Disney World! Vacation! Remember? Fun? Kids? Family?
(shrug).