Oh...that's terrible. Does the mom know about the airfare? Can you get any money from her? Why???? I would be so angry because I think an e-mail with that news is just rude.
Bobbi
Are you kidding??? That's awful. What airline are you flying on??? That mom would be paying for that airfare, that's for sure. I hope your dd isn't too upset. I was just going to come here and say how much my dd, soon to be 16, loves BWV. It's truly her home away from home. She loves being 'clown vomit'!!!
Oh yes, she knows. I told her a month ago that I was about to buy the tickets she said go for it, she asked when I needed to be reimbursed? I told her in a week or two. Well that was a month ago. The last couple weeks DD's be coming home and telling me that she's concerned if BFF is going to be able to go and told me stories like the mom and the BFF got in such a big fight that they each called the police on each other and last week the mom threatened to send the BFF to a girls home (note: this girl is NOT a problem child or at least not when she's at my house (which is often)).
Well, I got a little concerned myself and I sent the mom a quick email (I initiated the emailing, so I guess I was rude too but I wan't expecting bad news) telling her that I hadn't heard from her (which was my way of hinting that she also hadn't reimbursed me) and DD was concerned that BFF wasn't going to be able to go (I left out my knowledge of their family problems). She emails back stating that money is a problem, she can barely afford to eat and BFF can't go. "Don't hate us" ???
I go home that night and tell DD, who is devastated, I told her she could think of another friend or we'd scrap the trip and I'd rent out my points, go by myself or it would just be me and her. She goes to school the next day and is complaining to BFF that it suck's she can't go, etc. etc. and come to find out her mother didn't even tell her. Later that morning mom emails me and is upset that DD told BFF, and that "she didn't tell her kids because she didn't want them to be upset and to worry". I took that opportunity to email her back and tell her that the airfare was non-refundable and non-transferable when was she going to be able to pay me back?
She curtly responded that she'd take care of it this week. I feel bad but I told her upfront that I wasn't in a position to foot the bill but that her DD was more than welcome to come with us. I told her how much everything was going to be, etc. I'm hoping that Airtran will change their schedule and I could call & beg to cancel her ticket. I think that's my only hope of seeing my money back.
If I didn't already have other financial commitments right now, I'd probably tell her "No problem, I'm sorry it didn't work out". But part of me thinks this is a matter of keeping your word too and I'm not all together convinced that it has much to do with money. Especially when DD came down last night and said that BFF told her that she didn't think she was going to be able to come to her Sweet 16 party because she's going out of town with her youth group (note that dd's sweet 16 party is the day before we leave for Florida). Even DD said she didn't understand how she could afford to go with her youth group and not us.
In the words of DD "this sucks!"