I am not at all worried about my DD3. She will be three on the 29th of March so ours are really close in age. True, she will have one of her sisters in the same group but it's not the one she really is close to but..... On our last cruise my oldest girl was just 4 and didn't stay in the club that much but she did have two other sisters who were not in the clubs at all so she knew they would be with my DH and I and had a little bit of green eyed monster! Your kids must be toilet trained to be in the club(mine has been for about a year now) so if she's not I'd be working on it!
We stayed at the Radisson last time and hopefully will again. I couldn't believe how beautiful it was when we pulled in. Unfortunately we didn't get to use the pool or anything as we got there around 2am! The goal this year is to get there early Friday and enjoy it - it really is great and worth the money!!! Since we drive from Ontario we have our van and my husband will drive us to the ship, drop us and our luggage off and drive back to the hotel and take the shuttle. That way we don't have to try and carry all our luggage on the shuttle. Works great. I just checked us all in while he was taking car back to hotel.