Bullies

[Thumbs18]

Ok as dumb as this is gonna sound I had a really bad night last night thanks to a bunch of bullies. I went to hang out with a few friends (2 of them were guys) and the night started off great . We just went and dropped off my friends cars at the bowling alley and just drove my car (it's brand new so I wanted to show it off a lil) . When we got back to the bowling alley a bunch of ppl had shown up. Well my friend and I were getting a couple cds out of her car but when we opened the doors there was something wet all over them. Some of the ppl that were there peed all over her doors ! We went to wash the car and when we got back there were cops waiting for my friend. One of the girls that was there called the cops on her for illegal takeoff (didn't happen!)! She was so mad so we took her car home and drove my car the rest of the night. We went to meet our friends at Sonic and the same ppl showed back up. They started talking about doing stuff to my car and I made a joke to one of the guys about it. Well it ticked his gf off . So when my friend wasn't around me they all started saying stuff to me calling me a prep bc I wear Hollister and drive a new car and saying that I didn't belong there. I was crying by the end of the night. They even went so far as to threaten the 2 guys that I was originally hanging out with when they tried to step in. They had followed me thru town all night 2. I'm honestly a lil scared. Do you guys have any advice? Should I just brush it off or what?

 

[Axel]

This is the point where you call the cops.

Seriously. That's harrassment and damage to private property when they used your friend's car as a toilet. If they keep it up, see about charges and possibly a restraining order. Call the local police and see what you can do about it and do that.

 

[crazytp93]

Yeah I know it seems minor now. But call the police, put in a report, b/c if you don't do something about this now it could turn into something bigger in the future.
Good luck.

 

[Thumbs18]

New twist in this. Just found out that the people who called the cops on my friend were supposed to be HER FRIENDS. And the girl who did it. . .well her uncle's a county cop. As for the charges. . .I can get a restraining order, harrassment and terroristic threatening. My friend can press charges for destruction of property, harrassment, and slander. Any other help is appreciated

 

[Stitch&figment 4 eve]

New twist in this. Just found out that the people who called the cops on my friend were supposed to be HER FRIENDS. And the girl who did it. . .well her uncle's a county cop. As for the charges. . .I can get a restraining order, harrassment and terroristic threatening. My friend can press charges for destruction of property, harrassment, and slander. Any other help is appreciated

That should've only made her act like a person, instead of being so cruel. Cops' kids are making their mom or dad look bad when they do that. If I ever did anything, my dad would hear about it.

If it continues soon, or if you felt threatened, try to get the restraining order. Chances are, no matter what, this isn't going to turn out well for the bully.

 

[Thumbs18]

If they don't back off then I am getting a restraining order. I keep getting calls on my cell from a blocked number. Idk if it's even the same ppl. They call me a b**** and then hang up. I have a couple friends whose number comes up as private. . .that's the only reason I answer the calls. I went out with a guy friend 2day and saw the ppl and they followed me until my friend went to the mall security desk and told them what was going on. I'm getting really scared.

 

[Stitch&figment 4 eve]

I'm gonna say go for the restraining order then, if you were scared why put up with it?

 

[BabyPiglet]

Call. The. Police.

That's harassment, destruction of private property, and a multitude of other things.

 

[valeriesunshine]

Call the police. Because they are following you, you should for sure call them.

 

[Thumbs18]

My mom said that we will see what happens tomoro and if they keep it up then we will go to the cops

 

[valeriesunshine]

Ok good. Keep us posted.

 

[Thumbs18]

School got out today early due to ice but the same people tried starting things again. I was sitting with a bunch of my friends (about 7 guys) and they came up and started throwing out profanities at me. My friends just stood up and told them that if they left then and left me alone that there wouldn't be any reprocutions. They kept saying stuff so two of my friends started pushing them back away from me while a couple other guys went and got the principle and I had two guys sitting on both sides of me. . .the people are in a lot of trouble for conspiracy, threatening, and something else that deals with my friends. . .intent to injure I think. I'll keep you posted

 

[#1TiggerFan]

That was a good thing about getting the principal. but be more alert. make sure u lock ur car and maybe if ur car doesn't have that touch a car alarm maybe it be best to scare them away.
But i hope u get better luck.
Rachel