FayeW said:
I really want to know how some people can afford to do 3 -4 TS meals AND 2-3 character meals each time they visit. Am I just cheap?
No, you're not necessarily cheap! First, like you say in your post, you want to get what you think would be a better value for your family. Also, different people have different income levels and different circumstances.
For instance, my family has annual passes this year in order to squeeze three trips in to one 12 month span. We usually go on two vacations per year, so we're doing 2 WDW vacations in 2005 and one in 2006. Since we got the AP's, we were able to get the DDE card, which gives us a 20% discount at TS meals (including character meals). With one toddler and one preschooler, we find it much more convenient to stay onsite, which means that we also eat every meal on WDW property.
With the DDE card and two young children, my family can dine at a sit-down restaurant like Tony's for lunch for about the same price as dining at Cosmic Rays, but I have ADRs so I know we'll be sitting down at a particular time and the entire family loves getting a break in an enclosed, air conditioned environment.
Since DD is free at buffets (like the character meals) and DS is still young, Character Meals are a relatively affordable way for us to 1) eat and 2) see the characters we love most without the crowds. We have never waited in lines to see any characters -- I would much rather spend an extra $20 on a character meal than spend an hour waiting in line to see those same four characters elsewhere in the parks.
MNSSHP sounds great, but would be too late for my kids. We'll be at WDW in Dec. and have opted not to go to
MVMCP for the same reason -- expensive and my tots wouldn't last longer than 8 or 9 (at the latest). We've opted for the Candlelight Processional Dinner Package, instead, since there is a 5 p.m. show.
Now, if I were in your shoes, I personally would not do the FDP as we've always had good luck just buying the kids a popcorn and getting a seat 45 minutes early for Fantasmic. The popcorn keeps the kids happy while we wait. Then, if I was still concerned about costs, I would book one of the character lunches or breakfasts (either is less expensive than dinner) in/near a park -- probably Crystal Palace with Pooh or Chef Mickeys at The Conteporary. But that justs goes to show that everyone has their preferences!
Enjoy your trip!