Brian Noble
Gratefully in Recovery
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One of the things I've learned in recovery is that people lie for all kinds of reasons, in situations that might not make sense to someone not involved directly because it's more about how they (want to) see themselves than anything having to do with anyone else. This happens even in situations that are easy to factually disprove.I know this is the internet, and anyone can say anything, but why would anyone lie about this stuff?
For example, if I (want to) see myself as a shrewd negotiator, I can imagine shaving a little off the price I paid, or maybe padding the price I got just a little bit. I'm just rounding a little, or maybe I'm posting what I remember the price to be rather than go back and double check. After all, I'd certainly remember something like that, right? Hint: Nope! Our memories don't always work the way we think they do.
The really short version: People are complicated, especially in ways that they themselves don't understand. So, it's likely that (some) sellers, (some) buyers, and (some) brokers are all not quite honest some of the time.
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