Summer-Caitlin
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 15, 2006
Hi all
I just spoke to my mother and broke the news that the Wedding is booked at WDW. I had always hinted to her that I wanted a Disney Wedding, but I asked her today how she would feel if my fiance and I eloped, she said she was fine, so I told her it was booked and then she started to cry
She said she always wanted to see me walk down the aisle in a Church and she can't afford 3 weeks in Florida. So I then had to break it to her that we want it to just be us, and have a reception when we got home.
Am I being really selfish telling my mum not to come? The thing is we already have romantic things planned after our Wedding that is strictly 2 of us only. We are getting a couples massage then going to Victoria and Alberts for our first meal as husband and wife and later on our vacation going on The Disney Cruise Line for 3 nights.
My mum isn't a fan of theme parks and can't go on many of the rides, she would be the only one going to the Wedding and if she came along I'd have to make sure she was ok, basically I'd be concerned all the time.
I feel terrible now cause I know everyone will say how selfish I'm being, that I don't even want my own mother there, what do you guys think? I didn't actually expect her to say she wanted to come. It's not that I don't want her there but we want our wedding our way.
I mean I'm having a lavish reception when I get home and I'm wearing my dress, I'm gonna have loads of photos and DVD footage, I don't know what to do.
Sorry for the rant!
I just spoke to my mother and broke the news that the Wedding is booked at WDW. I had always hinted to her that I wanted a Disney Wedding, but I asked her today how she would feel if my fiance and I eloped, she said she was fine, so I told her it was booked and then she started to cry
She said she always wanted to see me walk down the aisle in a Church and she can't afford 3 weeks in Florida. So I then had to break it to her that we want it to just be us, and have a reception when we got home.
Am I being really selfish telling my mum not to come? The thing is we already have romantic things planned after our Wedding that is strictly 2 of us only. We are getting a couples massage then going to Victoria and Alberts for our first meal as husband and wife and later on our vacation going on The Disney Cruise Line for 3 nights.
My mum isn't a fan of theme parks and can't go on many of the rides, she would be the only one going to the Wedding and if she came along I'd have to make sure she was ok, basically I'd be concerned all the time.
I feel terrible now cause I know everyone will say how selfish I'm being, that I don't even want my own mother there, what do you guys think? I didn't actually expect her to say she wanted to come. It's not that I don't want her there but we want our wedding our way.
I mean I'm having a lavish reception when I get home and I'm wearing my dress, I'm gonna have loads of photos and DVD footage, I don't know what to do.
Sorry for the rant!