growinupdisney
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- Nov 4, 2007
My daughter wants to bring her boyfriend when or if we go in April! He loves WDW, has been a few times with his family. He would pay for his tickets, and his own food! We go to Disney every year and have never taken one of their friends before kast year we did take my mother(loved it).
Here is the prob: #1 I know he and my dd will want to explore the parks alone and I want her to be w/ us. I know she won't get to do as much as we will and will stand in long lines because she won't follow the routes we do. (Going during Easter) Which I know will make her grumpy and then she will have spent the trip yes, with her boyfriend but not getting to do everything she usually gets to.
She says they will do everything we do but I know them...They won't. He is not use to doing what we do. We do Fantasylad, we have dd2 and ds13 also so we fit in everything usually for everyone. But I already heard him say he doesn't like those things(fantasyland,toontown, etc.)
plus I am the disney planner, have been over 40 times it is just as exciting to plan as to do the trip!
He tends to have that know it all personality he is (17) and only been 4 times. But he is like that with everything. I'm not sure I will be able to handle it.
I prob. could but might have to bite my tongue.
I did tell my dd No he couldn't go after she had already told him he could. I didn't every tell her yes to start off with just maybe. So now he has cancelled plans w/ his guy friends for his last sping break in HS to go with us and now I'm noy sure if I want him to go.
My dh doesnt want him to go either because the boy gets on his nerves but he deals with him of our daughter.
Plus now my dd is moping around the house because he can't go, he is upset because he can't go and thought he was, and apparently it's my fault.
So what should I do? Convince my husband to let him go
Tell my daughter No, have her go and then mope around the whole time we are there.
Have her stay home while we go that way she can spend time with him since he changed his plans to spend his last year home with her
Or change our trip to Nov. when he will be off to college( and maybe not even dating anymore) to lessen the blow him not going.
All this being said when I was in HS my parents did let me bring my bf, We did have fun but when I got home I broke up with him (because his little mannerisms that you don't usually see day in day out drove me crazy)
They have been dating a year now and last year when we went they had just started dating so it wasn't a prob. She had asked before, if we went again could he come and I said yes! But I said that a year ago before I really knew him.
What do I do... I love my dd and want her to fun, not be in an awkard situation w/ him especially when or if we go without him.
I'm not sure I could have fun knowing she stayed behind while we went
Here is the prob: #1 I know he and my dd will want to explore the parks alone and I want her to be w/ us. I know she won't get to do as much as we will and will stand in long lines because she won't follow the routes we do. (Going during Easter) Which I know will make her grumpy and then she will have spent the trip yes, with her boyfriend but not getting to do everything she usually gets to.
She says they will do everything we do but I know them...They won't. He is not use to doing what we do. We do Fantasylad, we have dd2 and ds13 also so we fit in everything usually for everyone. But I already heard him say he doesn't like those things(fantasyland,toontown, etc.)
plus I am the disney planner, have been over 40 times it is just as exciting to plan as to do the trip!
He tends to have that know it all personality he is (17) and only been 4 times. But he is like that with everything. I'm not sure I will be able to handle it.
I prob. could but might have to bite my tongue.
I did tell my dd No he couldn't go after she had already told him he could. I didn't every tell her yes to start off with just maybe. So now he has cancelled plans w/ his guy friends for his last sping break in HS to go with us and now I'm noy sure if I want him to go.
My dh doesnt want him to go either because the boy gets on his nerves but he deals with him of our daughter.
Plus now my dd is moping around the house because he can't go, he is upset because he can't go and thought he was, and apparently it's my fault.
So what should I do? Convince my husband to let him go
Tell my daughter No, have her go and then mope around the whole time we are there.
Have her stay home while we go that way she can spend time with him since he changed his plans to spend his last year home with her
Or change our trip to Nov. when he will be off to college( and maybe not even dating anymore) to lessen the blow him not going.
All this being said when I was in HS my parents did let me bring my bf, We did have fun but when I got home I broke up with him (because his little mannerisms that you don't usually see day in day out drove me crazy)
They have been dating a year now and last year when we went they had just started dating so it wasn't a prob. She had asked before, if we went again could he come and I said yes! But I said that a year ago before I really knew him.
What do I do... I love my dd and want her to fun, not be in an awkard situation w/ him especially when or if we go without him.
I'm not sure I could have fun knowing she stayed behind while we went