I was once a BM in a very extravagent wedding, so we got pretty terrific gifts. Each girl got a different color Longchamp tote stuffed with a velour Juicy Couture sweatsuit, tanks with "BM" "MOH" in rhinestones, earring/necklace sets from Swarovski to wear at the wedding, Ugg slippers , cashmere scarf/glove/earmuffs set (the wedding was in January), and a cosmetics bag with mini make-up. The bride's idea, she told us, was to use things we could use the wedding weekend, but also beyond. We all wore our tanks and sweatsuits as our hair/make-up got done, used the mini make-up for reception touch-ups, etc. I loved it! I used up most of the make up and ended up giving away the Uggs because I don't wear sheepskin products, but I still use everything else. I'll probably end up doing a similar theme when DBF and I eventually get hitched, but with less expensive products!