Not a mom, but spent over 2 years in braces. When I first got my braces I had a heat activated wire (in the middle of winter) so it was (from what I understand) more intense than a normal wire. The first couple days I wanted nothing but mashed potatoes, soup (although not any that had really chunky meat in it because I couldn't chew it), applesauce, jello, yogurt, ice cream, and snow. For about another week I was on the mashed potatoes, soft pasta, and mac and cheese diet. I had to eat that sort of thing a lot during the two years, actually, because a lot of the adjustments they did were major adjustments. I also got braces in multiple appointments (tops first, then bottoms 9 months later, additional top braces a few months after that, etc). So all of that made it so I was eating soft food a lot