boy trouble

[MouseLover]

I like this guy who doesn't really like me. I asked him out a year ago and it took a LOT of courage and turned me down. I know he likes shell necklaces, long shirts, and who knows what else. I try to look my best around him, and he still doesn't notice me. Should I try again, change the way I look, and change my personality for this guy? Girls, do you have any guy tips?

Thanks,

Mouselover's Daughter

 

[reminisce]

NEVER change yourself for a guy. NEVER EVER!!!! if he doesnt like you the way you are, hes not good enough for you anyways.

 

[GirlWithSpunk]

NEVER change yourself for a guy. NEVER EVER!!!! if he doesnt like you the way you are, hes not good enough for you anyways.

If he doesn't like you the way you are then forget about him!

 

[SBubba18]

Yea, don't change for a guy.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

If he can't appreciate you the way that you are, he's obviously an ***hole, and isn't worth it. Trust me, you'll find someone so much better that you'll forget about this guy. Find someone who will like you for YOU, not for who they WANT you to be.

 

[XxCuriosityxX<3]

If he doesnt like you for YOU, he's not worth it.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

A guy who won't notice you for who you are isn't worth it.

 

[CheezDoodle]

Did you just go up to him out of nowhere an say 'hey I like you want to go out?'. Or did you try being friends with him first? It's never a good idea to go up to guys out of nowhere. Just like girls, it scares them. I had a guy do that to me. He was a really cute 8th grader, but I said no because I didn't know him.

So yeah. Make friends first. Wait at LEAST a month. Then re-ask him.

And you can try a new haristyle or some pretty eye makeup, but I wouldn't change myself completely.

 

[acesupercoolme]

No, you should move on. If he turned you down theres nothing you can do.. it's not like you can force him to like you.

 

[baby<3]

Move on. If he doesn't like you for who you are, he's a loser.

Just forget about him.

 

[Axel]

DO NOT! EVER! Change for a guy. If he can't like you for who you are, then it's only going to end up hurting you in the long run because you'll lose touch with who you are while you're being who he wants.

I've done it and it sucks. A lot.

 

[disneychick2721]

Like everyone else is saying, Never Change for a guy ever.

But, if hes not into you then who cares, find someone who is into you.

 

[pirateprinces_dancer]

NEVER change yourself for a guy. NEVER EVER!!!! if he doesnt like you the way you are, hes not good enough for you anyways.

i agree with her NEVER change yourself for a guy....i did but i ended up with some benefits like i found out about some of the comfyest shoes in the whole world....but it turns out that the guy i liked hated my guts XD

and if he doesn't like you for who you are then your too good for him

 

[BabyPiglet]

Never change yourself for anyone else! Move on, sweetie.

There are plenty of fishies in the sea that will appreciate you, for you.

 

[Thumbs18]

Try to get to know him. You know be friends and hang out for a bit. Once he gets to know you maybe he'll ask you out. Idk the whole situation so I don't really know how to handle this.
PLEASE DO NOT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE FOR A GUY!!!!!!! If he doesn't know the real you then he can't respect the real you and that's just not good.

 

[MrsSparrow..]

Im agreeing with everyone else, please don't change for a guy! Random note but this is what I hate about the film grease, the fact that Sandy changed her entire personality and appearance to be with a guy, such a wrong message to give out to people! ANYWAY lmao!

But yes, don't change! If he doesn't like you for you, then he's not worth worrying over

-Ashleigh