Boy trouble.. Any help please??

[disneedust1429]

So I really like this guy. And I think im in love with him. (lemme describe him a lil bit..) Hes tall, muscular, really nice, funny, and SMART!! Im talking high honor roll, straight A student smart! hes not considered "super popular" i guess. (I call him my big nred sometimes... but than my friend corrected me by saying that callin him "big" makes him sound fat, so I changed it to just "My muscular nerd" LOL)


Only problem (well not really the only one..) is that he has a girlfriend. SO, here's how he found out:

So, i've basicaly been drooling over him (and, yes, I must admit, going to all lengths to find out about him, his past, his family, etc.) for the past 5months. Than as I started to get to know him better, and find out more about him, i started to like him more. So much in fact, that fell in love with him. So, my freind decided to ask him out for me. I begged her not to say anything to him, that i coud handle it myself. She walked over to him, and I was thinking, "She wouldnt really do this to me. She wont do this to me" Well, guess what? She did this to me. I was freaking out. hyperventilating. They thought i was going to pass out. Well, I was abut ready to die right then and there. I still had 6th period with him, nd that was the last thing I needed was for him to bring it up. Well, after about a month of him knowing that i like him, it isn't so bad. He hasn't brought it up, and ,as far as i know, he hasn't told anyone.

ANDD i found out what he said when she asked him to go out with me:

Friend: So you know Cynthia (me), right?
Boy: Yeah.
Friend: you wanna go out with her?
Boy: Well, ive got a girlfriend
Friend: but do you like her?
Boy: *Looks kinda embarassed* Yeah..

So, as my friend was telling me this (I was analizing and..) I was kind of freaking out a bit because when he looked kind of embarased and said yeah, I was like "does he like me? does he want me as his girlfriend instead of D****** (I wont put his gf name on here) than why doesnt he dump her?" well, I thought he might like me too. But i dont know. Any help? pllleeasse help me!!!

 

[disneyluvr13]

I think you should just "go with the flow" If he likes you, he will eventually come around. But don't bug him too much, i dont think guys like that. (i know this from experience). Everything happens for a reason, give it time.

 

[PigletGurl]

Leave him be. If he wants u, hell leave her eventually, but dont do anything to make them break up. You wouldnt want that happening to you when u have a bf, do u? You cant do anything right now, but just be a friend to him, and nothing more. And if he does dump her for you, theres a possibility it could happen to you to, so be prepared.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Don't get in the middle of a relationship. I know that if some girl was "drooling" over my boyfriend, that it self would make me upset.. but if I knew she was trying to get with him.. that would really get me mad.

I've seen many girls try to get between peoples relationships.. and truthfully.. THEY end up looking like the bad guy.

Whether or not you love this guy, he DOES have a girlfriend.. and you're a girl too, so put yourself in her shoes. You know you wouldn't want another girl stealing your man.

If he likes you enough to date you, then he will break up with her for you. If he tries to flirt with you, while he's still with her.. thats jerk alert right there.. if he's willing to cheat (which flirting is cheating) then you don't need a guy like that, because he could easily turn around and do it to you). Just roll with the flow, whatever happens happens.