We are going to WDW in Jan. My husband will have just returned home from 9 months in Iraq. In those 9 months he will have missed, Valentine's Day, Easter, Daughter's Birthday (3), Wedding Anniversary, My Mom's Birthday (she lives with us), My Birthday, His Birthday and Thanksgiving. We plan on celebrating those events in Jan even though none of them are taking place in Jan. Do not feel funny. You need to do whatever is best for your family. We plan on buying cakes and special desserts like the Cinderella Slipper, Chocolate Mickey & Strawberries, mini wedding cake, etc...... Enjoy the time you have a Disney and celebrate whatever you want. It is your money that you are spending for the trip.
ENJOY!