Well, I agree with the castle if she really likes the princesses, if not....
Chef Mickey's -- lots of fun, variety of food, festive atmosphere
Crystal Palace -- same as above
50's Prime Time -- we went with my whole family and everyone loved it; my cousins loved seeing their father get put in the corner for sticking his tongue out; my sister loved seeing my father get fed his vegetables; it was good for my son (at the time 15 months old) because they actually brought a few toys over to the table for him to play with; everyone loved the desserts being shown on a view-master; we were there on my birthday and it was a lot of fun - everyone in the room we were in (including people we did not know) signed a birthday card for me as well as sang Happy Birthday over a cupcake with a candle
Have fun!
JenC