All of my 5 dc's b-days are within two months of each other. We will be there for one b-day, but I also wanted the others to be able to celebrate since theirs would just be a few weeks away.
I'm letting each of them pick a character meal as their special meal. We'll get the pins, and make the notes in ressies and see what happens!
If anyone has anymore advice or suggestions, let me know. I just don't want to have to order 5 cakes when they would be happy with anything special!