I was actually socially ostracized because I didn't have big hair. In high school in the 80's, I wore my non-colored mousy brown hair straight, long, and flat. I was made fun of because I didn't have big hair. A couple of acquaintances even told me that they didn't want to be seen with me since I was so not with the current fashion trends.
I remember I didn't understand big hair, I didn't know how you made big hair, and I felt left out of the loop since everyone else knew and I didn't.

But after awhile I realized I hated most of my classmates and couldn't care less what everyone else was doing (since they weren't going to be my friends anyways) so I proudly wore my boring long flat hair.
Fast fowards 20+ years, and our senior photos are on our alumni website for the world to see. I am the only girl who looks anywhere nears normal!!

Revenge is sweet!
Oh yeah, and I am from Jersey!