I ended up keeping the Deluxe Belle dress. (I'll be posting pics in a few days) It is heavy, but that never bothered DD. She loved swirling in it. She loves dresses though, so some other kids may not like it or find it itchy.
She did say she was hot later in the day, but she wanted to go swimming, so no matter what she was wearing, she would've been hot. LOL!
I kept the 4. The next size was just too long and I would've had to have it altered. This fit fine, but won't last a long time. I got a ton of compliments on it (well she did) and we were asked over and over where we got it. One girl started cryuing at BBB becuase that was the dress she wanted, and of course they don't stock it.
That is so wonderful!!! She must have looked and felt like such a princess
Thank you so much for the feedback!!