You aren't talking about martinis, you are talking about girly drinks served in martini glasses - which is ok, I like them too. But a martini is GIN with a small amount of vermouth and an olive. A vodka martini is the same drink with vodka instead of gin.
Me, I like the girly drinks (although I'll drink vodka and gin martinis on occation) and enjoy the pinapple upside down martini at Flying Fish best at Disney - pineapple juice, vanilla vodka, ameretto and a little grenadine.