I know you guys mentioned exchanges specifically but as another poster mentioned, what about Vero Beach? We stayed there this past October in a Beach Cottage and I have to tell you the resort is fantastic. I really feel this is one of the top oceanfront resorts in Florida. It has a great beach, great pool with waterslide, scheduled activities for the kids, campfires with smores at night, bike rentals, 9 hole mini golf, socer field, basketball court, tennis, stocked lake for fishing, archery and 2 decent restaurants plus poolside food and bar. Service is great as well. You might want to consider making it a backup plan and trying for an exchange. As for exchanges I feel the Marriott proerties are of similiar if not better quality. We just returned from the Aruba Marriott Surf Club so I'd be glad to share about that. Good luck and it certainly will help your case that you are flexible.
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