Thank you, and yes it is true I am kind of a hotel expert.

I have stayed at all 6 Disney Hotels.
But your question which hotel is good for first timers is very hard.
I would not suggest Santa Fee and Cheyenne as they are not my favourites and they are a little more fare away from the parks than the other hotels.
As you have a little child I would
1st suggest the
Disneyland Hotel (if you can afford it)
It is perfect if you want to return to your room for a rest (and your child will need one) or if you want to drink something of your own cheap drinks. Because the hotel is the entrance of the Disneyland Park. And from the restaurants (for breakfast) you have a wonderful view to the park. And the DLH is by far the most magical one.
2nd would be the Newport Bay Club. I just love this hotel. Great atmosphere. But you have to walk 12 minutes from the parks.
3rd would be Sequoia Lodge. I love the nature feeling. You feel like in an US National Park. It is great to wake up there in the morning and to hear the birds and smell the fresh air! You also need 12 minutes to walk to the parks.
4th would be Hotel New York. This is a great hotel but I personally think this is more for grown ups. (I know many here on the board dont think so) But I think it is perfect for adults or for businessmen or for quests who love the New York theme! But not for little children. But you only need 6 minutes to walk to the parks!
And another thing I have to mention: Some Disney Fans say: We dont spent money for an expensive Disney Hotels because you are only in your room to sleep and to have breakfast. But I cant sign that. The Disney hotels add so much to your perfect Disney holiday. The atmosphere is great in every Disney hotel! And we return to the hotel for at least one break every day and then it is great to return to a perfect Disney room. And if you wake up and you are right IN the magic is a must for me! And the pools in the Disney hotels are also unique! And only in the Disney hotels you can meet the characters.
And I would suggest also, if you are staying in NPBC, HNY or SL to pay the upgrade for a lake view room.
You can see some pictures in my album with the view which we had when we stayed in the HNY! It was worth it every penny!
http://pp.mousekingdom.com/thumbnails.php?album=230
