bad wife strikes again.

[02bBarbie]

Sorry, I stand firm with my opinion.

I respect binny, I simply don't respect her actions.
In my opinion it's petty.

Your opinion is different, that's fine.

and besides she didnt ask for your comments....

And please tell me where I asked for yours

 

[VintageKnight]

its ok to sell yourself but leave your boyfriend out of it.


thats supposed to be humerous, but i doubt you'll get it.

when you give opinions make sure they were asked for, binny gave a statement and others gave comments, you gave an opinion... theres a difference. and when that opinion is derogotory you become a target. deal with it.

and as long as you want to stay off my radar, have a laugh and let this drop.

DisneyVK

 

[Serena]

Originally posted by 02bBarbie
wow, how very, very petty

I'm sorry, but that smacks of insecurity...if not in your relationship, than in yourself.

I'm sorry there has to be such duplicity in your relationship.

You've got to be kidding. There is no way you have any idea what their marriage is like and to assume so just shows your ignorance.

 

[02bBarbie]

wow, I've been happily married for 17 years.....let me check with my DH if I know nothing about marriage....

I'm sorry, binny, if I offended you..I just stated what I felt on what I thought was an open forum. Perhaps this would do better on the Debate Baord

As far as everyone else goes.....if you feel I'm in the wrong, you're not much better for jumping on my case.

JMHO

Wow, I'm so sorry I don't feel the need to stay the course and act like a lemming and laugh at something I don't find amusing

 

[VintageKnight]

the point is dont post.

your comment was not needed when laughter desperatly is...

thats why she posted it.... not to have your off handed remark on here save it for your kids...

 

[6_Time_Momma]

I always say, if you're going to post something on a public bulletin board, you open yourself up to recieving opinions whether you ask for them or not. Such is the way of the BB. Been there many a time myself. Personally, I was a bit stunned that she would do that to something of her DH, too, but she has since posted that she does this every year. Okay, I guess. But, my first reaction was also "not right."

 

[02bBarbie]

the point is dont post.

Hmm..I'm more than willing to let this drop..now you say this.

If you have an issue with me personally, bring it to PM

But don't expect me to not post.

 

[02bBarbie]

Thank you 6_Time_momma......

I really thought this was a board to talk about things...not where dissenting opinions are frowned upon.

I'm sorry if people think my post was wrong. I apologized to binny (and binny only) if she felt I was out of line.

And, FWIW, VK, I find the idea of tossing someone's magazine terribly humorous so take humor where you can get it

 

[VintageKnight]

hey i apologize, i have severe issues with anyone trying to be authorative, no problem when its my kids or a parent getting onto there kids.. but at other adults.. very severe issues.

Im the guy that does the speed limit around the group of cars that are paceing the cop thats doin 5 under the limit....he cant touch me so why follow.. im not a lemming and never will be.

I have issues with your type, not you personaly.

your type reads and comes to a conclusion before understanding the words, inflections or point.

serenas post said you know nuthing of there marriage, not that you know nothing of marriage...thats a big difference....

you'd have a coronary if you heard how my wife and i talk to each other.. you'd think we were fighting 100% of the time, but we do it in jest.. with laughter and we know neither one of us is serious...thats how we survive...and in pure honestly i enjoy making up..=D

i see binny's actions as a playful jest.. she and her husband know the score.. and what plays need to be made....if she was like this on everything any man with a brain ( no snide comments needed about my gender) would have left her.. or actually never married her.

my wife made it clear to me anything she felt pornographic or un needed in the house ( about adult content) regaurdless of who's it is was, was to be chopped up and burned....and considering i agreed to these terms when it included personal body parts.... im either stupid or in love....possibly both.

you might think that was over the top, not her decision to make, doesnt matter her ex was a porn fiend, not the reason she left him, just something she found out about after she kicked his flabby rear out, he actually was stupid enough to put her as a co-signer on a car for his girlfriend.....

people have reasons for doing things....

i know were binny's comin from.. may not be the same reasons but i see the logic.....

maybe you first post should have been "why did you do that?", not "your wrong and i wouldnt have done that."


DisneyVK

 

[02bBarbie]

Apology accepted

I think my biggest issue in hearing the issue was destroyed was thinking of losing the Jimmy Buffett disc that came with it

Having a problem with what I said is fine...heck, I have problems with what I say some, nah most days LOL

However, I'm intersted in knowing exactly what "my type" is If you can peg what my type is after reading a few posts on a Disney board then, well, I'm impressed

 

[Serena]

I apologize as well. I am usually a little more tactful than that, or I try to be.

 

[02bBarbie]

I suppose it's only fair to explain where I came from with this post.

Please, if I start to ramble, forgive me, because this is a very emotional thing to me.

I was very close to my cousin....growing up we were more like brother and sister than cousins.

He was a fun loving, spirited guy. And yeah, he would be the type to enjoy the SI swimsuit edition. I think he even had a subscription to Playboy...but he had to hide it from his wife. He would grouse to me about that but I never really thought much about it.

One nafternoon he called his wife..said he had been invited to a bachelor party..sure, he could have lied and said he had to work late, but her refused to lie to his wife...he was always upfront about things.

Well, she had a conniption fit. Said she would divorce him on the spot if he wasn't home immediately.

He was very upset. He sent me an e-mail and was so sad, said how he felt his wife didn't trust him, when I knew and he knew that he was about the most upstanding, honest guy you'd ever meet.

That was the last contact I ever had with him. On his ride home, his car was hit by a semi. He was killed instantly

I can't help but think if he had only gone to that stupid party, he would still be with us

 

[Serena]

That's terrible, I'm sorry.

 

[02bBarbie]

thank you

I realize it's totally irrational to try to say if this hadn't happened thigns would be fine. But it just bugs me to this day

Sorry to be a downer

 

[skiwee1]

I must be weird but I buy DH a SI swimsuit calendar every year as a Christmas gift! What is the big deal?

 

[skiwee1]

Originally posted by VintageKnight
the point is dont post.

your comment was not needed when laughter desperatly is...

thats why she posted it.... not to have your off handed remark on here save it for your kids...

Who made you armchair moderator? If the OP didn't want to hear any opinions on it then she shouldn't have posted to a PUBLIC board. I think you need to chill.

 

[yourtravelpro]

Hey Binny,

That is too funny. I don't think you're a bad wife, nor do I think it means you are insecure in your relationship.

It's the ones that make a point of saying how secure they are, that probably aren't!

Obviously, your husband could care less about the swimsuit issue since he's not digging it out of the trash. I'm sure he'd prefer to just look at you.

 

[yourtravelpro]

Originally posted by skiwee1
I must be weird but I buy DH a SI swimsuit calendar every year as a Christmas gift! What is the big deal?

Read everyone's lips.....

It's a joke!!
It's funny!!

 

[VintageKnight]

bite me

read the post in full maybe you would have known i explained my position and apologized an hr before you chose to dive in...

i love people who want to feed fuel to a dead fire.

DisneyVK

 

[MICKEY88]

Originally posted by VintageKnight
lay off,

it aint your husband, so it aint your decision. besides if he wanted to look at it he would say so....and besides if there was anything to look at he would have said so.....

get the humor in the post, we dont want your negativity, and besides she didnt ask for your comments....

if you cant keep the comments nice, keep the fingers off the keyboard.

DisnyVK

A true Knight would never speak to a lady this way...

you sound more like Bobby Knight...