We love both. We did the Barbecue 2 weeks ago with a 2 yr old, 10 month old, 2 25 yr olds, 4 30 yr olds, and 2 60 yr olds. Everyone had a blast. You have to really get into the dancing and activities. I thought the food was pretty good, but it was barbecue. truly I didn't have a lot of time to focus on the food as my kids wanted to get out on the floor and dance. The Hoop Dee Doo Review is also a lot of fun. It depends what your looking for in the experience.
If you want to get up and dance go to the Barbecue.
If you want to sit and be entertained go to the Review.
Honestly, we like both and when we go back in May we are doing the Review Friday night and the Barbecue on Saturday night.