I shy away from giving or recieving anything personalized...when I'm done with it, what will we do with it?? we cant give it away, donate it, or even sell it...so, I'd recommend staying away from those items! nevermind the arguments they cause between children in the same household if only 1 has it!
Consumables are always good - diapers, wipes, dreft/laundry detergent, etc.
We are expecting number 2 - and regardless of the gender, I will need new bibs and new white onesies - the first kids were not worth saving!! Meals or dinner certificates for our favorite take out places are also very welcome! Anything to avoid cooking!
Lastly - what I really want is a massage and a pedicure...my body needs it badly!!!